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There are many ways to make a guy jealous. Some are cute, but most of them are just wicked.

Every now and then, there may come a time when you get pissed off with a guy.

You may like him, you may be dating him, or you may have broken up with him.

But at the bottom of it all, you may want his attention or you may want to prove your worth to him.

And when you’re upset with a guy or just crying out for his attention, there are a few ways to pierce his heart and make him sit up and take notice of you.

And it all comes down to this.

For a guy to take notice of you, you need to become desirable in his eyes.

Better yet, you need to make him feel like you’re unattainable.

And the only way to do all this is by understanding how to make a guy jealous.

How to make a guy jealous

Jealousy plays a very important part in romance.

Jealousy induces desire and attraction, and it also makes a guy want you more.

If a guy likes you and sees you flirting with another guy, his jealously will make him desire you more and try harder to please you. But then, there is a thin line between making him love you more and making him hate you for the way you treat him.

There are many ways to make a guy jealous. Some are cute, but most of them are just wicked.

Depending on your relationship status with the guy, here are a few things you can do to make him jealous and take notice of you.

DATING A GUY WHO’S NOT ASKING YOU OUT

Are you dating a guy who’s not really asking you out or even bothered to find little ways and romantic gestures to please you? Perhaps, in all probability, he’s just having a fling or looking at you only as a pastime.

Use these tips on making a guy jealous if you feel like your relationship has no life or if you feel unwanted by your new boyfriend. If you want the magic of romance and chase in the relationship or if you want him to get more sexually attracted to you, you need to let him see that other guys treat you better, and that you’re getting a lot of attention from other guys too.

#1 Have a great life without him. If he cancels a date or makes any last minute plans, tell him you’re busy and hang out with your own friends. And when he calls you while you’re out with your own friends, don’t hang up after saying goodbye. Instead leave the phone on the table and let him overhear your fun conversations and bristle with rage for not being able to have a fun time with you.

#2 Speak highly of your ex. Bring some competition into the air by letting him know how great your ex was and how well he treated you so you can set a benchmark for him to beat.

#3 Compliment other guys. If your guy doesn’t treat you well, compliment any guy friend for the smallest of gestures and talk about how sweet he is with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend will want the same attention too.

#4 Get touchy feely with your guy friends. Laugh a lot with your guy friends, play along with them and tease them. Get especially touchy feely while playfully posing for a photo or hugging goodbye in front of your man.

#5 Flirt on facebook. Getting a lot of attention on facebook from other guys could make your new boyfriend realize how desirable and wanted you are by everyone else.

#6 Ignore his calls now and then. Pretend like you’re busy and make him miss you. But look gorgeous every time you see him. He’ll be too mesmerized to stay angry, and yet, he’ll crave for you.

#7 Let him know you’re getting attention. If another guy asks you out or flirts with you, let your new man know all about it. It’ll make him jealous, and it’ll also make him work hard to woo you and make you fall in love with him first.

DATING A GUY WHO’S TAKEN YOU FOR GRANTED

Are you in a relationship for a while with a guy who either takes you for granted or gives more attention to other girls even when you’re around?

If your boyfriend only answers in monosyllables or treats you like a guy friend, or even if he has started to ignore you recently, here are a few things you can do to make him jealous and miss your presence.

#1 Get a guy best friend. Guy best friends are never good news for boyfriends. Boyfriends hate them. By getting a guy best friend, it’ll make your man hate your new BFF and make him feel insecure at the same time.

#2 Appear mysterious. Don’t reveal too much about your plans to your boyfriend. Be vague in your answers and avoid having long conversations with him until he takes an interest in spending time with you.

#3 Hog the attention. Have a lot of fun with other guys, especially when you see your boyfriend walking towards you from a distance. And even if he comes close, just wave out to him and have a fun time with your own friends. If he can’t give you preferential treatment, why should you?!

#4 Be a subtle flirter. Flirt with other guys, but don’t overdo it. He may realize that you’re only trying to make him jealous if you overdo it. Or worse, he may think you’re a horny tramp.

#5 Go out on a date. Go out for dinner with a cute guy, and even if your boyfriend asks about it, just tell him the truth like it’s no big deal. If your boyfriend doesn’t want to take you out, why is it a bad thing if some other guy wants to take you out?

#6 Let him know you don’t need him. Guys like being depended on. But behave like you don’t need him around because you have a lot of guy friends who can help you anyway. Ask your boyfriend for his help. But if he can’t help you, get another cute guy to help you and tell your boyfriend about how much fun you had with the other guy.

HOW TO MAKE A GUY JEALOUS AND GET EVEN WITH HIM

Now these are wicked moves, and you really should use them only if you want to get back at a guy for what he’s done to you.

If a guy’s hurt you and you want vengeance, or if you want to mess a guy’s mind for cheating on you and walking all over you, here are a few things you could do to piss him off to no end.

#1 Make him compete for your attention. Date other guys and let him know what you’re doing. And if asks, tell him the other guy’s just a friend.

#2 Don’t worry about getting caught. Let him spot you with another guy, when you’ve told him that you’re busy at work. And pretend like he’s the one making a big deal out of a little thing.

#3 Cozy up with another alpha male. Get close to the guy your boyfriend feels insecure about and flirt with him subtly, especially when your boyfriend’s around.

#4 Revealing clothes. Wear revealing clothes when you go out with other guys, but dress conservatively when you go partying with your own boyfriend.

#5 Flaunt a hickey. If you’ve just broken up with your boyfriend, hook up with someone and let your new ex see your hickey.

#6 Sleep with his friend. If you’ve broken up with your boyfriend, the best way to get back at him is by sleeping with his friend, preferably his best friend who’s a better guy.

#7 Sleep with the enemy. If you want to get even with your ex boyfriend, sleep with the one guy he hates. There’s no bigger way to make him furious.

PRECAUTIONS AND DANGERS OF MAKING A GUY JEALOUS

Let’s face it, all these ways to make a guy jealous may seem fascinating and fun to read. And the best part, it works really well too. But making someone jealous comes at a price. And at most times, the more you try to make someone jealous, the more it may backfire on you. Here are a few things to keep in mind before you try these moves.

#1 He may give up and avoid you completely. Jealously is almost always a positive sign in love, but pushing the odds can turn all that love he has for you into hate.

#2 He may retaliate with his own moves or criticize you publicly.

#3 He may see through your game and realize what you’re up to.

#4 He may even take to competitive flirting or plot ways to get even with you.

#5 The tables may turn and you may end up being the loser. And you’d feel even more jealous and miserable if your ploy fails its purpose.

#6 It may lead to complications and you could end up losing your relationship and a few friends too.

#7 You may end up in pain or resent the whole game halfway. You’d end up angry and confused.

#8 You may become obsessive, possessive and destructive in your pursuit to win this game of jealousy.

#9 You may get what you want. He could end up stalking you or becoming obsessive and violent.

#10 You may lose focus of what you want. If you truly believe the relationship has no future, it’s better to just let go and work on healing your scars instead of plotting revenge all the time, while living in a toxic relationship that could make both of you miserable and angry.

It’s never a bad thing to make a guy jealous, as long as it serves its purpose. All said and done, the fact that one of you can get jealous proves just one thing, that there’s love in the air.

Use these tips on how to make a guy jealous only to win back his affection and interest. But as soon as things get better, stop making him jealous and work on ways to better the relationship instead.

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13 Comments

13 Comments

  1. Patrick

    January 12, 2013 at 2:18 pm

    Don’t you think you’re being foolish for this kind of post? U expect a girl to sleep with someone else just to get at her ex. Later u call someone a slut. U also talk abt indecent dressing! Seriously, you’re an idiot. No offence.

  2. Nathan

    January 12, 2013 at 2:31 pm

    While I was reading through half way I was thinking about the dangers associated with all this moves including physical abuse. Thank you for stating the dangers involved because many of them may not realize…

  3. Nathan

    January 12, 2013 at 2:37 pm

    While I was reading through half way I was thinking about the dangers associated with all this moves including physical abuse or even dead. Thank you for stating the dangers involved because many of them may not realize…! Your Idea of indecent dressing and sleeping about will send many women into the hands of iresponsible guys and the rest without a husband

  4. Nathan Ubong

    January 12, 2013 at 2:39 pm

    While I was reading through half way I was thinking about the dangers associated with all this moves including physical abuse or even dead. Thank you for stating the dangers involved because many of them may not realize…! Your Idea of indecent dressing and sleeping about will send many women into the hands of iresponsible guys and the rest without a husband.

  5. Bello

    January 12, 2013 at 2:45 pm

    If my girlfriend did this to me, I will hate her more and I will never reconcile with her.

    • shirley

      January 12, 2013 at 3:54 pm

      Who cares? Besides there are many fishes in d river. Asshole

  6. Alade links

    January 12, 2013 at 3:44 pm

    try it wit me nd u wuld knw dese rules apply to weak guys….cnt b jealous of one chik wen dia ra lots of them!!bt who ever wrote dis,am nt sure u ar in ur ryt senses.hw wuld she sleep around just to mk him jealous??u no try at all!!

  7. tope

    January 12, 2013 at 4:21 pm

    I don’t tink ds tips are awesome cos am a lady and can’t do it,sleeping wt his best fwend is awful dt means d girl is so cheap,damn it I can’t ooo.

  8. Bigfoot

    January 12, 2013 at 7:04 pm

    So much crap in this article… This will get a lot of girls in trouble.. Trust me>>

  9. Rimamnde

    January 12, 2013 at 10:46 pm

    I lyk ur post(s) “but” d dangers r actually dangerous. Hw do u xpect a gal 2 sleep wit ha ex best frnd/enemy wit d aim of getting him bck? It wud rada worsen d situatn. Am waiting 4 d reverse of ur post.

  10. amnrose omo'oje

    January 13, 2013 at 7:28 am

    d tips r useless.u wl lose wot s urs if d tips r used

  11. lovely prince

    January 13, 2013 at 3:08 pm

    it’s of no used..because she we be the one at d losing side.

  12. jjjj

    January 14, 2013 at 12:06 pm

    these rules sucks!!!!! won’t wok

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