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Check Out 5 Ways You Can Give Your Own Girlfriend Some ‘Assurance’ Without N30billion

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Even if you don’t have the kind of money Davido has, there are certain ways you too can make your woman feel loved.

The need for assurances and reassurances in relationships have been a thing long before Davido released a song bearing that title and bought his girlfriend, Chioma, a Porsche with the word inscribed on its number plate.

Everyone, and more especially women want to be certain that they are the only one [except, of course, those that willingly became side chicks and side guys].

Even at that, everyone still wants to be sure the terms on which they entered into the relationship/situationship has not changed. People want to feel special not just at the beginning but for the entire duration of the relationship – a duration which is often hoped would be endless.

Since there is a call for assurances now more than ever following Davido’s assuring act of purchasing his girlfriend that extravagant car, how exactly does one give assurance to his girlfriend?

PRO TIP: You don’t have to have N30 billion in the account to do any of these.

1. Assure her that she’s the only one

Look her in the eye, tell her she’s the only one.

Look her in the eye, tell her she’s the only one. Hold her face in your hands as you say so. Be close enough for the timbre of your voice to create gentle echoes in her heart and spread into every tiny bit of her consciousness.

She needs to be reassured that despite how rough life can get sometimes, she’s still the one you with whom you want to find calmness, the one with whom, and in whose arms you want to enjoy *-the peace and tranquility that always comes after the storm.

And mean it every time you say it.

2. Reassure her that she’s beautiful

Yes, her beauty drew you in. The alignment of her eyes and nose and lips and the way her smile lit something inside you and made your heart skip like a lamb… it all made you die for her. And it wasn’t until you got her that you felt alive again.

Never let her forget this. You need to always reassure her that she’s still beautiful, that time has not put a film too thick in your eyes to stop you from seeing how pretty she is.

The problem is that guys often forget this. They often become numb to the beauty their babes are. Don’t be that guy who forgets to melt at the terrific beauty he’s been blessed with. Always remind yourself of how lucky you are and let her know about it. Other guys may say it, but she needs it for you.

3. Assure her with gifts

Ok. You may think I do not have ₦30Billion in your account but you actually do not need a Porsche before to impress your girl.

Little gifts, grand gifts, every one you give within your means to please your girl are assurances that you have her in your mind and that she’s special.

Don’t ever forget to keep assuring her.

4. Reassure her of the future

She wants to be sure that this is not just about the here and now.

Sure, everyone wants to live in the moment and it’s good to not overthink things, but she also needs reassurances that the future is secure and she’s not just wasting her today with you.

5. Show it

Acts of love and service to her are reassuring enough, too, without having to say a word.

Every action that confirms your love to her, never hesitate to do them. The goal is to never let her forget, to never let things get into doubt.

Run relentlessly with that goal.

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By Ayoola Adetayo

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‘You Are A Disgrace’ – Actress Adesua Etomi Knocks Lauretta Onochie Over Her Tweet

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In a few months time, you will hear the cry of a Baby” – Maduagwu tells Adesua Etomi

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Popular Nigerian actress, Adesua Etomi-Wellington has lashed out at presidential aide, Lauretta Onochie over her recent tweet.

The Personal assistant to the President on social media had taken to Twitter on Monday to encouraged people to wear face masks to protect themselves against COVID-19.

Onochie also accompanied the tweet with a photo of some shirtless little children wearing face masks made of cardboards.

“WEARING A MASK IS NOT A POLITICAL STATEMENT.
ITS NOT PUNISHMENT BY GOVERNMENT
PROTECT YOURSELF.
Wear one

These have made efforts with masking where those of us who are more vulnerable & susceptible to COVID-19 are still swearing that it’s a scam.
God bless their efforts”, she tweeted.

Reacting to this, Adesua expressed her displeasure over the photo and she tackled the presidential aide.

The actress wrote;

“You are a disgrace. Both home & abroad. You should be ashamed that these children have to do this with cardboards. Instead of talking about how to tackle poverty so they can be protected adequately against the virus, you’re spewing this nonsense.

“This picture made me so angry and brought tears to my eyes. They are so small , so vulnerable and so unprotected. Arghhhhhh. THIS COUNTRY”

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Singer 9ice Shares New Family Video; Hints At Reconciliation With His Wife

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9ice and his wife

If a new post by singer, 9ice is anything to go by, it simply means his efforts to save his third marriage is working.

The singer, who was recently embroiled in a cheating scandal, took to his Instagram stories to share a video showing the moment he and his daughter were seen having fun.

The video was also accompanied by a caption which reads; “thank you” indicating that he is grateful.

Fans are still unsure if the couple are back on, or it is just a facade.

However, from all indications, it seems the singer’s wife, Sunkanmi may have decided to give him another chance to save their marriage.

Information Nigeria recalls that days ago a video showing the singer being affectation with a lady surfaced on social media.

The singer left his fans in shock when he shared a video in which he publicly apologized to his wife for being unfaithful and he also asked his fans to beg his wife for him.

Read Also: Please Forgive Your Husband – Actress, Bimpe Akintunde Begs 9ice’s Wife

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‘Being Divorced Is Nothing To Shame Anyone For’ – Toke Makinwa Blasts Reno Omokri

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Nigerian media personality, Toke Makinwa has clamped down on former presidential aide, Reno Omokri following his remark about ‘divorced women.’

The former presidential aide had shared a tweet where he urged the media to project ‘natural beauties’ like the late Nigerian first lady, Mayram Babangida as role models for youths, instead of bombarding them with photos of ‘bleached and divorced women with surgical enhanced bodies.’

Irked by the tweet, Makinwa, who is a divorcee, rebuked Omokri and she labeled him as an ‘embarrassment.’

In her words;

“Wow, at your age? Your wife and kids must be cringing for you, such an embarrassment. “Divorced” is nothing to shame anyone for, life happens. People like you are the reasons why a lot of people stay in unhealthy situations and lose their dignity and In some cases their lives.

“You can celebrate a version of beauty without putting another down, you don’t have to meddle in women’s business too. If you have a daughter I hope she gets the courage to never deal with a man as uncouth as you, stop with the misogyny.

“I don’t care about shots intended my way, what I do care about is the group of women you singlehandedly insulted with your “Divorcee” comment, to divorce is not a crime, every divorced person has survived something and sometimes getting a divorce is the only option they have 

“Enough with the divorce shaming of Anyone, I don’t see a divorced man being shamed for living his life after his failed marriage, people like that clown are probably in unhealthy marriages too. God forbid I marry a man who tweets that kind of garbage, sighhh.

“Everyone has a divorced person that they know, it can happen to anyone, that we divorced and alive should be encouraged, people are dying each day living in unhealthy situations and while I’m not advocating for divorce, if leaving is what you need to do, do it in peace.

“You cannot survive a bad marriage, survive a mental breakdown and then now have to deal with judgement from people who have not walked a mile in your shoes, it should not be encouraged. Someone’s journey does not have to be your cup of tea, that’s ok but you must respect it.

“Dragging my divorced slay queen naked ass back to my holiday and waking up to the most beautiful view. In my bed and outside my room. Love and light xx” Toke tweeted

Read Also: “Please show us your new man” – Fan reacts as Toke Makinwa causes some stir on social media after flaunting her body online

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Omokri’s tweet

Omokri’s tweet

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Makinwa’s tweet

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