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Ellen DeGeneres says she suffered from depression after publicly coming out as gay and reveals Elton John’s hurtful reaction hurt her feelings

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Ellen DeGeneres came out as gay on TV in 1997. She has now spoken out about the reaction she received and how it made her feel.

She came out on an episode of her ABC sitcom and it made history because, at the time, people were not as accepting of the LGBTQ community as they are now.

Speaking with Dax Shepard in a recent interview for his Armchair Expert podcast, the comedian said the backlash that followed her coming out left her suffering from depression.

 

She said: “Even Elton John said, ‘Shut up already. We know you’re gay. Be funny,”

She added: “I had never met him and I thought, ‘What kind of support is that from a gay person?’ But everybody assumed I was just nonstop talking about. It hurt my feelings.”

 

In the years since then, Ellen and Elton have met and he’s been a guest on her daytime chat show on NBC.

Ellen told of how her sitcom was canceled by ABC because sponsors and advertisers deserted it due to her coming out. She thought it would be impossible to resurrect her career afterward as everyone deserted her and refused to work with her.

 

Srecallsles: “(ABC) finally let me come out, and it was a huge success the night of. It was huge. It was celebrated.”

But it wasn’t rosy for long and her show was canceled.

She adds: “People were making fun of me. I was really depressed. And because of that and because the show was canceled, I was looked at as a failure in this business. No one would touch me. I had no agent, I had no possibility of a job, I had nothing.”

 

She also found herself being criticized by some people in the gay community.

“The gay community, it’s a really difficult line to walk. Some people thought, ‘You’re not gay enough, and you’re not doing enough for our community, and there are so many that have done more.’ And I was like, ‘I didn’t say I was your leader, and I didn’t say I have done more. I just want to be a comedian, and I just happen to be gay’,” she said.

 

Ellen DeGeneres says she suffered from depression after publicly coming out as gay?and reveals Elton John

 

Ellen also told Shepard about another painful period in her life and how the tragic death of her girlfriend when she was 20 spurred her on and eventually led her into stand up comedy.

“My girlfriend was killed in a car accident when I was like 20 years old. And I wasn’t doing comedy, I think I was probably waitressing someplace at the time. I was living with her when she was killed,” she said.

The Ellen Show host recounted how she couldn’t afford to continue living at the home she shared with her girlfriend and moved into a small basement apartment by herself.

“I was sleeping on a mattress on a floor and it was infested with fleas. And I used to write all the time, I wrote poetry and songs and stuff, and I thought, ‘Why is this beautiful 21-year-old girl just gone and fleas are here?” she said.

“I just thought it would be amazing if we could just pick up the phone and call up God and ask questions and get an answer,” she explained to Shepard.

That led her to come up with her Phone Call To God comedy routine that she performed in 1986 on The Tonight Show With Johnny Carson. Following her stand up routine on the late night show, Carson invited her to sit down on his couch, making her the first female comic in the history of the show to do so. That launched her comedy career.

Source: Linda Ikeji’s blog

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#EndSARS protesters break into Lagos International Airport (Videos)

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#EndSARS protesters break into Lagos International Airport (Videos)

Young Nigerians protesting against SARS brutality, under the #EndSARS movement, stormed the Murtala Muhammed International Airport in Lagos state.

The protesters in their hundreds are preventing movement in and out of the busiest airport in the country.

Nationwide protests have been going on over the past 11 days, demanding an end to police brutality and extrajudicial killings, but since it began, this is the first time protesters would disrupt activities inside an airport.

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#EndSARS: ‘Our Problem Is That We Lack Fresh Ideas’ – Singer Korede Bello

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Korede Bello

Nigerian singer, Korede Bello, has shared what he thinks is the problem of Nigerians. The Mavin Records act took to his Twitter page to state that the lack of fresh ideas is the main hindrance to the cherished new Nigeria on everyone’s lips.

According to him, a New Nigeria can only emerge from a people who are willing to see Nigeria in a new light.

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His tweet reads:

“Our problem is that we lack fresh ideas and only dwell on recycled & infective ideas to the problems our current leaders may or may not have created. A New Nigeria can only emerge from a people who see or are willing to see Nigeria in a new light”

See his tweet below:

Korede Bello’s tweet

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American Actor, Wesley Snipes ‘Blade’ Supports #EndSARS

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American Actor, Wesley Snipes 'Blade' Supports #EndSARS
American Actor, Wesley Snipes 'Blade' Supports #EndSARS

Wesley Snipes

Hollywood actor, Wesley Snipes, popularly known as ‘Blade’ has lent support to the #EndSARS movement. The American actor took to his Twitter page to simply tweet:

“#EndSARS”

The Florida-born 58-year-old movie star, film producer and author earned the moniker ‘Blade’ for his role as the titular character ‘Blade’ in Marvel’s film trilogy (1998-2004), ‘Blade’.

The most notable movies he has been on till date include ‘New Jack City’, ‘Passenger 57’, ‘U.S. Marshals’, ‘The Expendables 3’ and ‘The Player’.

Read Also:  #EndSARS: ‘We Want To Change Established Systems’ – Singer Bez

Snipes joins other international celebrities such as Kanye West, Trey Songz, Big Sean, John Boyega, Chance The Rapper, and Lil Baby who have lent their voices to the trending  #EndSARS movement.

See Wesley Snipes’ tweet below:

Wesley Snipes’ tweet

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