“My back-up boyfriend proposed to me, what should I do” — Confused Lady Asks

A Nigerian Lady has written to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, that she is confused because her ‘back-up’ boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes, but meanwhile her main boyfriend hasn’t popped the question yet and she hides the engagement ring from him.

Here’s what she wrote below ;

Good evening,

I currently cohabit with my boyfriend of 4 years for 6 months now, he is serious but wants to make money first before popping the question.

Yesterday a backup boyfriend i had but hardly see, proposed to me. i said yes but i hide the ring from my main boyfriend. How do i get out from this dilemma.

Both of them are still trying to make money but this other guy loves me more.

I don’t have enoough money now, i would have gone to rent a place urgently till my new fiancee is ready to do wedding .
I’ve been deceitful and i regret so badly! Guilt is killing me. i need advice on how to break the news and get free joro.

 

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