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Why I Stayed in Bad Relationships – Popular Actress

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Popular Nigerian actress, Dayo Amusa, who is having the best time of her life in Dubai, United Arab Emirates, has revealed that she cannot save her men after always finding herself in bad relationships.
Lagos-based popular Yoruba actress, Dayo Amusa has said she often found herself in bad relationships because of an innate yearn to “fix” broken men.
The screen star who had failed several times in her men-fixing attempts, says that she has now discovered that she cannot “save them”.
In an Instagram post on Wednesday, the actress said she has now found clarity and that she is ready to make changes moving forward.
She wrote: “I used to be a fixer. I stayed in bad relationships, attracting the same type of men—men who needed to be fixed.
 
“I know so many women in the same position. We attract cheating men, commitment-phobic men, emotionally unavailable men, emotionally damaged men, alcoholics, drug abusers, narcissists and sociopaths.
 
“It’s like we are a magnet for men whose pieces are shattered all over the place. And for some reason, we feel compelled to put these pieces back together.
 
“But I must admit, I have failed every single time.
 
“I never gave myself a chance to sit back and question my motives. Instead of asking why I constantly felt obligated to pick up someone else’s broken pieces, I ran to pick them up without a second thought. Being selfless made me think that coming second didn’t matter because I was putting someone else’s worthiness first. And in the end, rank doesn’t matter, right?
 
“I realised that the reason I was attracting these types of men was because I believed I could save them.
 
“As selfless, thoughtful, giving women, we think we will be “that woman”—the one who will change them. We think we can turn a cheater into a loyal boyfriend. We think we can help him walk away from the drugs and alcohol.
“We believe we can help him get over his commitment issues and aim for a stable future with us. We trust that we can get rid of the emotional baggage that he has been carrying for years. We attract these men because we believe they need us. And to leave them would be selfish, insensitive and ruthless.
 
“The sad news is, we constantly blame ourselves when they don’t change. Every time they fail us, we think it’s because we failed them. Their hold on us becomes stronger; they keep us around knowing they have nothing to offer.”

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BBNaija Star, Kiddwaya Shows Off His New Look (Photos)

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Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Kiddwaya took to his Instagram page on Wednesday to show off his freshly colored hairdo.

The reality TV star, whose real name is Terseer Waya, switched up his look as he dyed the center of his hair to brown.

Taking to the photo-sharing app, Kiddwaya uploaded a couple of pictures of himself cladded in a Versace rainbow robe and he wrote;

“We no longer shoot for the stars. We shoot for every God damn thing up there”

Read Also: Kiddwaya replies fan who asked him if he has “paid the debt” he incurred

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The reality TV star’s post

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Burna Boy Fires Shot; Says “Some People Can Perform But Can’t Sing”

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Popular superstar singer, Burna Boy, has once again reignited feud rumors after he fired some shots via his Snapchat account.

The self-proclaimed ‘African Giant’ raised fans’ eyebrows when he threw a subtle shade, which many believe might be aimed at his colleague, Davido. Burna Boy shared a post which reads:

Some people can perform but can’t sing, some people can sing and perform. Quality over hype.

Information Nigeria recalls that the singer, who was recently nominated for a Grammy Award for ‘Best Global Music Album’, was seen celebrating with his family and friends.

The ‘Way Too Big’ crooner earned himself a chance to compete for the ‘Best Global Music Award’ category at the the 63rd annual Grammy Awards scheduled to hold in January 2021.

Read Also: ‘You Are Looking At The Champion’ – Burna Boy Reacts To His Grammy Nomination

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MTV Africa Music Awards (MAMA) Returns In 2021; To Be Held In Uganda

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The MTV Africa Music Awards (MAMA) has returned after taking a break in 2016. The seventh edition of the prestigious music awards show will be held in a re-imagined virtual format in Uganda on February 20, 2021.

The official Twitter page of MTV Base Africa has been updated to show all the necessary information regarding the upcoming awards show.

The 2021 edition of the awards promises to be exciting as four new categories have been added namely the MAMA Generation Change Award, Best Fan Base, Alone Together Best Lockdown Performance and Personality of the Year in addition to the highly coveted categories – Best Male, Best Female, Best Song, and Best Collaboration.

Read AlsoFull List Of Winners At MTV MAMA Awards

Nominees will announced in December 2020. Bonang Matheba remains as the host of the event.

The MTV Africa Music Awards Kampala 2021 will be broadcast on MTV Base (DStv Channel 322) and MTV (DStv Channel 130).

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