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Man Up: Why Are You Still Single?



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Society always likes to pose the question to single women? But what about men? Why are they single? Despite what people believe, there are a lot of single men out there.

Society still largely views men as the relationship pursuers, and therefore we assume if a man is not in a relationship it must be because it’s his choice. Despite what you may think about men, there are single men who desire a loving relationship; and that demographic is often overlooked.

Like women, men have some relational baggage too. And like women, these men also need to deal with that baggage. The challenge is recognizing the issue and dealing with it accordingly. Here are six main reasons why men are still single:


Due to the painful outcome of a past relationship, some men are gun-shy when it comes to trying again and exposing their heart (they aren’t always as tough as they put on). A past hurt may make them afraid to make a commitment and move forward in a lasting relationship.

This situation could lead to a “hurt you before you hurt me” scenario when a man strings a woman along until she ultimately leaves or is replaced by someone else. A man must heal from his past hurt to not allow fear to have power in his relationships.


Some men desire their mate to live up to a certain standard that no woman could realistically meet. A man may desire a mate who reminds him of his own mother but then adds other expectations to the equation, such as her appearance, dress, career, etc.

In this case, until the man is willing to accept a woman for who she is, he will never be satisfied and may never commit.


For an immature mind, the thrill of the chase seems more rewarding than the fulfillment of a loving relationship. These men will eventually have to come to terms with what they want from life. Are these short-term thrills in direct interference with your long-term goals?

Other men are more comfortable with playing games and leading women on instead of being honest, regarding their true wants and desires. These men often employ playground tactics to make themselves feel dominant/superior and therefore deserving of a woman’s affection. Until a man decides he is worthy of the relationship he desires, it will be a constant game of control and manipulation.

Unnatural Role

Like some women, some men don’t know or understand their role. In a relationship, a man should offer love, provision, stability and security (just to name a few).

However at times, it seems the roles have been reversed and the woman is the one providing these key factors. A man is a hunter and most often will not be happy until he is in his natural state of pursuing (hunting). A woman caught in his cross hairs while he is still trying to find his place in the world, will just be used and tossed aside.
Family Issues

Some men no matter the age are in bondage to their family (e.g. living up to the standard set for them, Mama’s boy, etc). Not until he is able to come out of the mighty grip of his family, he will never fully be free to live his life.

In this situation, these are deep-rooted issues, which at times might require therapy. Freedom is key in order for a successful relationship to occur.
Single Life Works

Lastly, there are men who like the company of women but love being single. This category covers two types of men. Those who are having fun and enjoying the single life and those who have no desire to be married.

Both types enjoy being single and the freedom it affords them. Honesty, is so critical for this category of men, letting a woman know that you aren’t ready for a committed relationship will help set the right expectations.

In the end, single men should be completely honest with the ladies—no matter where they find themselves on the spectrum.,

Women will appreciate them for it. A woman would much rather a man who says he is not looking for an exclusive relationship as oppose to a man who would lead her on. Honesty will make life easier—for him and her—and relationships will flow more smoothly because of it.

Male and female methods might vary, but we all desire love. Choose to be true to yourself and honest with those in your life. It makes for a very happy ending.


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Relaxation Of CBD In NFL – An Insight



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There has been a lot of buzz around CBD in recent years, especially in the health and wellness industry.
Many sports associations and players around the world have also recognized CBD as a pro sports

However, one of the most coveted associations- the National Football League, more popularly known as
the NBD had been quite strict in its ban of cannabis related products, including CBD. But in recent times,
there seems to be some good news in store both for eh players and every CBD shop as the association is
considering lifting the blanket ban and allowing players to use CBD, which has become popular for its
medical properties.

What Is CBD?

Before we proceed to understand the decision of the NFL, it is important to understand what CBD is and
how it is different from the other cannabis product. CBD or cannabidiol is one of the primary chemicals
found in the cannabis plant, the other being THC. However, contrary to common beliefs, CBD is not
psychoactive in nature. It does not cause the user to feel ‘high.’ This is because high quality CBD does
not contain even trace amounts of THC, which is responsible for these reactions.

In fact, many recent studies indicate that CBD is an excellent medicine to cure several physical and
mental conditions, including chronic pain, anxiety, inflammation, and depression.

Why Do Sportspersons Recommend CBD Use?

If you are into sports and athletics, avoiding injuries is almost impossible. While painkillers may be
helpful in managing the pain, they have numerous side effects on the other organs of the body. That is
why many players and athletes are now in favor of using CBD to manage their pains and injuries.

Sourced from organically grown hemp, CBD helps in alleviating the pain without injuring any other
organs of the body. It is no wonder that players are in favor of using CBD in place of the synthetic drugs
that are available in the market.

CBD For Sleep

For your body to perform its best, it is important for it to be well-rested and rejuvenated. This can only
happen through sound sleep. For many players, who suffer from muscle cramps and injuries, getting
proper sleep becomes a challenge. CBD can be very helpful in those circumstances as well. By soothing
the nerves, CBD helps the body to fall asleep faster and also the quality sleep that it needs.

Good sleep can also help the body in replenishing its worn and torn tissues faster.

The Changes Anticipated In NFL

The NFL, which has one of the strictest policies regarding drug testing, is now considering changing its
policies, especially the ones that are related to CBD. The players who test positive for cannabis will not
be directly suspended from the team. Rather a fine will be imposed on them as per the number of times
that they test positive.

The threshold for testing has also been changed as the players now will only be tested during the first
two weeks of the training camp, in place of the April- August testing policy that was followed earlier.

These progressive changes seem to be a direct result of the changed perception that most people have
regarding CBD today.

It is also worthy to note here that CBD is legal in all the American states, with minor restrictions on the
amount and the concentration of the product. Players are the happiest with this new move as they are
of the opinion that CBD works much better and is far less addictive than the painkillers that are given on
prescription. Even the sports associations around the world are also likely to reconsider their policy on
CBD after this change.

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Actress Osas Ighodaro Celebrates Her 30th Birthday With Emotional Post



Actress Osas Ighodaro Celebrates Her 30th Birthday With Emotional Post
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Nigerian actress, Osas Ighodaro penned an emotional note via Instagram as she clocked 30-years-old on Monday.

To mark her birthday, the single mother of one posted a monochrome photo of herself as she wished for people to continue praying for those who lost their lives during these turbulent period.

Ighodaro wrote;

“Thank God for another year. Happy Birthday to me. If you know me, you know I absolutely love birthdays but this year it certainly hits different. I’m overwhelming grateful for life and thankful to God to be able to see another birthday bc unfortunately many haven’t and won’t have that opportunity.

I am hopeful for better days for myself, those that I love and hold dear and most certainly for my country Nigeria. I pray for unity, peace, harmony and togetherness. We all deserve it.

My birthday wish is to please continue to pray for those innocent lives lost. Please remain hopeful and focused because I truly believe better days are soon ahead by God’s grace.

Peace, Love and Blessings.”

See her post below:

The actress’ post

The actress’ post

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Exotic Resorts May Be the Best Bet for a Holiday



An exotic vacation usually means exploring a distant foreign country, whilst resorts are places
to go for rest, sport, or which offers a particular speciality, with many resorts being part of a
popular tourist destination or on or near a beach. If you are planning a vacation to an exotic
resort it can be a once-in-a-lifetime vacation to a far-flung destination or a luxurious place to
stay closer to home where you can enjoy some pampering.

Why stay at an exotic resort

Exotic resorts often offer all-inclusive vacation deals, along with other options that leave you
to plan your stay more precisely to your own wishes. These resorts offer excellent customer
service, superb accommodation and facilities and are usually to be found in beautiful settings.
Here are some of the best resorts from around the world for you to consider:

Four Seasons Resort, Seychelles
This famous resort has made many feel they have entered Paradise. The gentle ocean breeze
floats up the granite hillside and into your tree-house villa tucked away from the other guests
staying at the resort. This is perfect for encouraging you to relax, either by your private pool
or in the clear blue waters of Petite Anse Bay. Perfect for a romantic stay, there is a Spa for
pampering and the chance for a sunset meal on a deserted beach.

Some enjoy simply sitting on their balcony, gazing at the ocean between reading their book,
sketching or checking out international bookmakers and betting sites for the chance of a
flutter. If you want another type of adrenaline kick, check out the resorts excellent kayaking
and snorkelling facilities, which are recommended by nearly all who try it.

Anantara Resort, Hua Hin, Thailand

The ultimate tropical getaway, the Anantara Resort is an award-winning site modelled on a
traditional Thai village and is just three hours drive south of Bangkok. The location is where
Thai royalty and aristocrats have been holidaying for almost one-hundred years. Today, you
can visit historical attractions alongside theme parks and shops as well as vineyards and golf

The resort is set among 14 acres of lush tropical grounds with lotus-filled lagoons and
meandering pathways through exotic foliage, with many rooms overlooking the shoreline.
Each day, chefs prepare freshly caught local seafood alongside Thai specialities. The resort
also has an award-winning spa located within a lagoon-inspired oasis offering you the perfect
opportunity to relax.

Kurumba, Maldives

Kurumba is a well-established resort that opened almost 50 years ago and continues to offer
superb hospitality and contemporary facilities. There are seven speciality restaurants offering
cuisine from Italy to the Middle East as well as Thila, a restaurant which extends out over the
water which offers gourmet breakfasts and seafood dinners.

You can go snorkelling over the nearby reef full of colourful marine life or sign up to a dive
package as part of your stay, or just enjoy a private pool when staying at one of the spacious
villages. There are also deluxe beachfront bungalows offering direct beach access and views
of the crystal-clear waters.

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