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8 Reasons Why Your Life Should Not Revolve Around Your Man



article-2014824010281437694000The feeling of being in love as well as being loved is truly amazing for all those who experience it. This is also true that this feeling fills in the desire in you to spend more and more time with your man. But, it does not mean that each and every moment of your life should be spent with your partner. Making everything in your life focused on him is not really healthy for you as well as your relationship.
If you want to know why we are advising you not to make your life revolve around him, here they are.

#1. Individuality at stake

In order to please the men in their lives, many women begin to follow them and make every effort to fit into their lives. And while doing so, they usually fail to realise that they are taking the risk of losing their individuality. As a result, many girls end up becoming a shadow of their partners. Well, this is something that definitely your guy would not like. You may like to watch science fiction movies, whereas he may be a sports fanatic; you may like to read romantic novels, but he may prefer travelling. Both of you surely would be two different personalities. But, did he not fall in love with you with all these differences only? So, what is the point in changing yourself?

#2. You will become dependent

If you have already started losing your individuality, then there are high chances that gradually you will feel incapable of doing anything on your own. You would start looking up to him as a support for each and every step you take in life. Agreed, that helping you would make him feel responsible as well as strong. But, seeking his support for even the petty issues of your life might really irk him.

#3. No more friends

We know that everyone’s priorities do change with time. And this certainly happens when someone is in a relationship. But, you might end up losing your friends if you fail to maintain a fine balance between your social life and your love life. If you constantly keep saying no whenever your friends ask you to hang out with them just because you wanted to be with him, they eventually may stop considering you to be a part of their outings.

#4. He might get bored

Ever heard of, absence makes the heart grow fonder? But, if you will spend each and every moment with him, when will he have the time to understand how he feels without you being in his life? Instead of making him feel bored when you are not around, you are going the reverse way. As much you might be enjoying being with him all the time, he might get equally bored of the same situation.
You might have been able to charm him through your appearance, but things might turn ugly if you continue behaving like this. Act before its too late. Here are 5 Things Apart From Your Looks That Drives Men Crazy.

#5. Your goals lose the track

Spending all your time trying to figure out the ways to spend time with him might make you lose sight of your other things in life. Your career, health, and all other goals of your life will take a backseat in such situation.
It is not that difficult to give equal importance to work as well as him. Don’t agree with us? We are sure you would after you read these 8 Best Ways for Newlyweds to Balance Work and Married Life

#6. Jealousy might come in

When you would become so habitual of having him around all the time, the reverse of it will become quite intolerable for you. For instance, if your partner decides to spend some time with his friends, there are chances that you will start getting suspicious. It might get difficult for you to understand that he just wants some space, and probably you will look upon his every move with jealousy.

#7. It is unhealthy for you

If all your time and energy would be devoted to him, then there would hardly be any time left for you to take care of yourself. Besides, you might start getting anxious whenever he would ask you for some space. And needless to say, tension is the root to various serious health disorders. So just imagine the impact this behaviour of yours will have on your health.
If you desire so much for him to be around you, why not act smart and do something that would be beneficial for both of you? Try these Interesting Workout Ideas for Couples.

#8. End of everything

This can possibly be one of the biggest side-effects of being around your partner all the time. He might start feeling suffocated in the relationship due to this behaviour. And even though it is an extreme step, but he might think eventually to bring this relationship to an end.

Loving someone certainly brings up a feeling of care for the person you are in love with. But at the same time, this love and care should not take other important things of your life away from you. So, make sure you are not one of those to commit “this mistake” in your relationship.


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Exotic Resorts May Be the Best Bet for a Holiday



An exotic vacation usually means exploring a distant foreign country, whilst resorts are places
to go for rest, sport, or which offers a particular speciality, with many resorts being part of a
popular tourist destination or on or near a beach. If you are planning a vacation to an exotic
resort it can be a once-in-a-lifetime vacation to a far-flung destination or a luxurious place to
stay closer to home where you can enjoy some pampering.

Why stay at an exotic resort

Exotic resorts often offer all-inclusive vacation deals, along with other options that leave you
to plan your stay more precisely to your own wishes. These resorts offer excellent customer
service, superb accommodation and facilities and are usually to be found in beautiful settings.
Here are some of the best resorts from around the world for you to consider:

Four Seasons Resort, Seychelles
This famous resort has made many feel they have entered Paradise. The gentle ocean breeze
floats up the granite hillside and into your tree-house villa tucked away from the other guests
staying at the resort. This is perfect for encouraging you to relax, either by your private pool
or in the clear blue waters of Petite Anse Bay. Perfect for a romantic stay, there is a Spa for
pampering and the chance for a sunset meal on a deserted beach.

Some enjoy simply sitting on their balcony, gazing at the ocean between reading their book,
sketching or checking out international bookmakers and betting sites for the chance of a
flutter. If you want another type of adrenaline kick, check out the resorts excellent kayaking
and snorkelling facilities, which are recommended by nearly all who try it.

Anantara Resort, Hua Hin, Thailand

The ultimate tropical getaway, the Anantara Resort is an award-winning site modelled on a
traditional Thai village and is just three hours drive south of Bangkok. The location is where
Thai royalty and aristocrats have been holidaying for almost one-hundred years. Today, you
can visit historical attractions alongside theme parks and shops as well as vineyards and golf

The resort is set among 14 acres of lush tropical grounds with lotus-filled lagoons and
meandering pathways through exotic foliage, with many rooms overlooking the shoreline.
Each day, chefs prepare freshly caught local seafood alongside Thai specialities. The resort
also has an award-winning spa located within a lagoon-inspired oasis offering you the perfect
opportunity to relax.

Kurumba, Maldives

Kurumba is a well-established resort that opened almost 50 years ago and continues to offer
superb hospitality and contemporary facilities. There are seven speciality restaurants offering
cuisine from Italy to the Middle East as well as Thila, a restaurant which extends out over the
water which offers gourmet breakfasts and seafood dinners.

You can go snorkelling over the nearby reef full of colourful marine life or sign up to a dive
package as part of your stay, or just enjoy a private pool when staying at one of the spacious
villages. There are also deluxe beachfront bungalows offering direct beach access and views
of the crystal-clear waters.

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Healthcare Workers To Receive Coca-Cola-Funded PPEs From Nigerian Red Cross



Since the outbreak of the Coronavirus disease in Nigeria, our healthcare workers have continued to lead the charge against the disease. As the number of recorded COVID-19 cases in Nigeria began to increase, these healthcare workers rose to the challenge and fought tirelessly to protect the lives of Nigerians impacted by the disease.

Considering the risks these healthcare workers face, there is a crucial need for adequate protective equipment for these brave frontline workers.

Coca-Cola is excited that over 400,000 Personal Protective Equipment (PPEs) procured to support the intervention efforts of the Nigerian Government and other key stakeholders to fight the COVID 19 pandemic have arrived. We do believe that this will to provide succor to our healthcare workers on the frontlines

These PPEs comprise N95 respirators, surgical masks, examination gloves, face shields, medical gowns, no-touch thermometers, disposable aprons, heavy-duty rubber gloves, rubber boots, basic masks, disposable gloves, and hand sanitizers.

Since the first confirmed case of the disease in Nigeria reported in February, over 800 healthcare workers have contracted the disease. While Nigerians are encouraged to stay home where possible and practice social distancing, these healthcare workers are needed across the country in the continued fight against the disease.

This donation forms part of The Coca-Cola Foundation’s COVID-19 relief interventions in Nigeria. The Coca-Cola Foundation has provided $2.5m in grant to IFRC who seeks to directly impact the lives of 1.4 million people in Nigeria and across other countries in West and Central Africa under this partnership.

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Taking Care of Tomorrow’s Leaders Today – The itel, Lagos Food Bank Example



Waking up to a special meal or choice gift is the best feeling ever. Hundreds of children in Mushin, mainland Lagos, had a filling taste of this feeling for the October 1 st celebrations. It’s an experience they will remember for a long time.

Being one of the most responsible corporate citizens around, celebrating Independence Day was always going to be on the radar for itel Mobile. To make this possible and memorable, the brand got to work in earnest. The focus of the work was picking the best way to commemorate the 60th independence anniversary of the most populous black nation on earth.

The efforts soon paid off through an impact-driven partnership with the Lagos Food Bank Initiative. With the arrangement, both partners considered a couple of activities capable of affecting communities positively and bringing smiles to people’s faces in Lagos. At the end of the exercise, taking care of children, the leaders of tomorrow, in the commercial city secured the highest votes.

With the decision, itel Mobile set about making this happen. Not surprisingly, the decision was
influenced by giving children the means to excel and prepare them for leadership and nation-building, for them to enjoy better life. For the good of their immediate family, community and the Nigerian society.

Idiko, Mushin, a suburb of mainland Lagos, was chosen as the benefiting community. And the partners strategically reached out to the beneficiaries, children and families, with gifts of love, care, happiness and support made possible by the itel Love Always On CSR initiative.

Over 1,000 families benefited from the gesture as well as 600 children, and each one of them received food packages to celebrate Nigeria’s 60 th Independence Day commemoration.

Speaking on the event and itel’s Love Always On CSR Initiative, Oke Umurhohwo, itel’s Marketing Manager said, ‘We wanted to mark this year’s Independence Day celebrations differently, and that is why we did something so momentous for our children. Children are the backbone of any longstanding community, and as such, we are proud to be able to give back and support them on their journey as leaders of tomorrow and for a better life.’

To meet the demands of the memorable event, 30 volunteers joined the customer-centric brand and the Lagos-based NGO to share smiles, and to convey just how important it is to love and take care of today’s children who will ultimately become leaders of tomorrow.

With the thoughtful activity, there are insights for everyone, from the government to citizens, on partnerships that are capable of making life better for children. Indeed, itel Mobile and the Lagos Food Bank Initiative have offered a great template on bringing this to reality.

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