My Husband Impregnated Popular Nollywood Actress And Wants To Sleep With My Maid

This is story of a married woman with four kids whose husband is unfaithful and he even made passes at her maid. She is confused and needs advice.

Dear readers,

I have an issue at hand and it’s tearing me apart and I want to share it with you for advice.

Young Woman Thinking

I got married about 7 years ago after dating for 4 years, I have 4 kids (boys) and I’m 31 years old. I’m a lawyer while my husband is a businessman. I married a good man, affectionate and loving (so I thought) until when I was pregnant with my 1st child. A woman came to our home and said he had promised to marry her, he denied and brought a bible out and cursed the woman of trying to break his marriage.

During my second pregnancy, he befriended a certain lady, whose friend later called me on phone to tell me her friend had taken my husband to juju in Cotonou, the woman (the friend to my husband) never came to our house again, she later lost her house, car and business, she now begs in order to eat.

When I was pregnant with my third son a very POPULAR NIGERIAN ACTRESS said she was pregnant for him, he confessed that it was one night of drunkenness which led to that. The actress went to almost everyone my husband respected to beg them to talk to him to marry her as a second wife, that phase also passed.

When I met my husband he had nothing, we built everything we have by ourselves. I recently delivered my last boy and both of his parents came for omuguo and just last Sunday we went to church and afterwards, my mum in law and I went to see our pastor and immediately he saw us he told us to tell my hubby to come for deliverance on behalf of the family and he said he had to come to the house to pray in the house.

I was shocked when my maid’s aunty called me and told me my maid said my husband wants to sleep with her and considering how good I was to her she was better off leaving the house. I confronted my husband and lo and behold he denied flatly and said that the girl was a witch and asked why she told me that and she had to leave on the pretext that her aunt was sick on the day the pastor said he would come to the house to pray.

The pastor eventually came and prayed and warned my husband and I that we had a problem between us and that we had to settle and make peace before any good thing could happen in our home.

I want a divorce, but I’m afraid if I leave and it later turns out the allegations were not true then my kids will blame me for not being patient enough. My father in law collapsed and had to be rushed to the hospital, his blood pressure was 220/140, and he could easily have gotten a stroke, I am confused about all this, is it the devil trying to cause problem in my family??? Or the devil himself is the one I married? Thanks and please don’t cuss me out cos I don’t want to descend into being suicidal, it has crossed my mind to end it all….

4 COMMENTS

  1. it is obvious that u lack patience, u dont pray, U are nt sensitive 2 d Holy spirit, 2 crown it all u are nt a christian. hw can u consider divorce obviously it is nt an option. Hold God to his word, if truely u belif in Him.temptation dont last so fight it. if u divorce him what will u do with ur freedom?

  2. hello my dear, your decision for divorce is not the solution to the problem on ground, what u need to do is to be patient, face your work a and take good care of your children . if he comes back t to his senses welcome him if otherwise be prayerful and be focused.bv