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[Advice Needed] Who Do I Accept Back – The Ex Who Cheated on Me, Or The Ex Who Used To Beat Me?



I have two ex who want to come back into my life right now. I am 28 years old and I am ready to settle down…. But I am so confused right now. Two years back I was dating this first guy, but we broke up because he wouldn’t stop cheating on me, infact he impregnated another lady and she had to abort the baby. We broke up because he was a f**king cheat! Last year, I met this second guy whom I dated, this guy was caring, but he would beat the hell out of me whenever we have issues. I also broke up with him. Last month, the two of them started disturbing me that they have changed for good. I really want to pick one out of the two, but who would I pick…. The cheating ex or the ex who beats me up?

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  1. S.A

    February 18, 2014 at 6:19 pm

    I’ll advice you to go for ur ex bash ali bcos he might change within short of time dan somebody bringing STD if not HIV to your door step.

  2. michelle

    February 18, 2014 at 8:10 pm

    Go back to d ex u’re more comfortable with, d one u kno truelly loves n cares 4 u. U need to date again to confirm if d change is real. Anybody can change if they choose to. I believe u kno wht u want, being 28 shuld nt be ur reason for settling down bt dat u’ve met d one who loves u n u also love in return. Take ur time, is about ur life, choose wisely, nt bcos of ur age.

  3. Amosu M.D.

    February 18, 2014 at 8:11 pm

    The final ball Is in your court. Does it mean when the two left you, you are not privileged to find any better. None out of the two is serious. Any one you choose or advised to is a risk.

  4. bash

    February 18, 2014 at 8:19 pm

    I second your opinion S.A,that guy must have contracted a disease,think about it,why you among all his numerous girls he was cheating on you with. Open your eyes and your mind and see things the way they really are….

  5. bcare§

    February 18, 2014 at 8:34 pm

    I wil advice u leave both guys cos it might just be a deceit.there are sumtin u can neva change and dose tins is beta left alone. Its neva too late now rather havin urself to be blame later.concentrate on ur future wit prayers and u wil definately laugh at the end

  6. juliet

    February 18, 2014 at 9:43 pm

    You deserve better nd none of them is qualify.

  7. sy

    February 18, 2014 at 10:03 pm

    D devil u’ve known *i’d advice not to date a new guy and just choose d one u luv d most snce dey are willing and promised to change ..All d best

  8. Lekan 'Feyisan

    February 18, 2014 at 11:07 pm

    I want to ask u. Wch of d ordeals wld u want to experience again. D cheatn or d beatn? Am sure non. So non of dem deserves u. Move on wv ur life my dear.

  9. Betty

    February 19, 2014 at 9:17 am

    None of them!
    They don’t deserve U at all,my dear.Someone who,s worth ur love will come along,just be patient wit ursef.
    The Cheat will keep cheating and d mike Tyson is unlikely to stop punching unless he,s now “truly” born-again and redeemed by the cleansing blood of Jesus.If not?Babe take a loooong walk!

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Kwara Governor, Abdulrazaq Declares 24-hour Curfew



Kwara Governor, Abdulrazaq Declares 24-hour Curfew

Governor AbdulRahman AbdulRazaq

Following the outbreak of violence in some quarters of the State, Governor Abdulrahman Abdulrazaq of Kwara State has declared a 24-hour Curfew on the state starting on Saturday.

Governor Abdulrazaq made this known in a statewide broadcast on Friday night.

Recall that on Friday some residents of Ilorin, the Kwara State capital stormed the warehouses where the government stored COVID-19 palliatives expected to be distributed to citizens.

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The warehouses, located at the cargo warehouse of the International airport in Ilorin as well as the agro-mall located in the Sango area of the state were totally ransacked as residents struggled to pack as much food items as they could.

Abdulrazaq said, “Lives are being threatened. Businesses are being looted. Public properties have been targeted. This is unacceptable. It is not who we are.

“To curb these acts of criminalities, I hereby declare a 24-hour curfew in Ilorin metropolis from midnight today October 23rd, 2020. This is in line with Sections 1, 2, and 4 of the Public Order Act Chapter 382 Laws of Federation of Nigeria 2004.

“People are urged to stay indoors in compliance with this curfew. This will be reviewed as we watch developments.

“Our observation is that what has happened today is not a protest, it cannot be defended under any guide, it was a pure act of criminality as some people are hiding under the guise of nationwide protest.”

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Lagos Policemen Brutalise PUNCH Journalists For Covering #EndSARS Protest



Two PUNCH journalists, Femi Dawodu and Segun Odunayo, were on Wednesday brutalised by policemen guarding the Lagos State House of Assembly in Ikeja.

The duo had gone to cover events around the Alausa area, a major demonstration ground of the #EndSARS protesters calling for a total overhaul of the Nigeria Police Force.

According to the PUNCH, both Odunayo and Dawodu were recording a live video of activities in the area when the policemen accosted them and ordered them to stop the recording.

After showing the policemen their identity cards, indicating that they are journalists covering #EndSARS protests and monitoring compliance with the government-imposed curfew, the policemen became annoyed and pounced on them.

Odunayo said the policemen tortured them for four hours, adding that they stripped them of their clothes, laid them on the floor, beat them with a stick and guns, and took a video recording of them while torturing them at the Lagos State House of Assembly.

Odunayo said, “Femi and I were at the Secretariat in Alausa around 7 am and were doing a live video of the activities going on in the area. We were heading back to the expressway when a group of armed policemen accosted us at the Lagos State House of Assembly roundabout and immediately collected our phones. We showed them our ID cards, but they refused to let us go.

“What got the policemen annoyed was that we saw them using a stick and a rubber to beat a young man, and during the live video, they heard me saying that they were beating someone. So, after they arrested us, they tortured us and demanded that we should do another live video denying the statement, but we refused.

“Each Time we refused, they slapped us, used a stick to beat us, used the butt of their guns to hit our heads and bodies after stripping us of our clothes. All they wanted was for us to do another live broadcast to claim that we lied and we didn’t because we told the truth.”

Dawodu said it took the intervention of the state Police Public Relations Officer, Muyiwa Adejobi before they were released at the Alausa Police Station, adding that before their release, the policemen took their details, including their addresses, took a video record of them and threatened to go after them if any negative report was published about what happened.

He said, “The policemen were transferring the aggression of what is happening regarding the #EndSARS protest on us. They later took us to the Divisional Police Station in Alausa, and if not for the DPO, the policemen guarding the LSHA that arrested us would have done more grievous things to us.

“The PPRO and the DPO later spoke with them, and we were released.

“But despite his intervention, we were told to write statements. They collected our details, address, took video recordings of us making false statements during the torture, and threatened to use it to blackmail and go after us if we end up doing any bad report against them.”

Sahara Reporters

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CCTV At Lekki Toll Gate Was Not Removed -Lekki Concession Company Says



Lekki Concession Company in their press release has debunked the rumour that the Lekki Toll Gate CCTV camera was not removed.

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According to the press release by the company which condemns the unlawful killings of the peaceful protesters said no one gave the order for the removal of the Closed Circuit Television System as the CCTV is still intact as of the time of this report.

Speaking further, the concession company revealed that if the CCTV was to be removed, it would require the use of machinery to reach the heights that they have been installed.

Read the release report below;


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