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Who Should I Marry?



I am 29 years old. I need your candid advice in terms of my relationship.

Young Woman Thinking

I used to date a black guy who I fell in love with but he broke up with me because he said I was a bit stubborn and he thinks I’m self centered. I pleaded with him not to end the relationship, even family members intervened all to no avail. He still ended it and I was really heartbroken. He has got three kids (white kids) and he is still single.

During our breakup I met a 34 year old white guy who I started dating. This guy is nice, caring and he loves me but he said he is not ready to get married yet but we can have babies together. Now the black guy whom I’m still in love with is back and asking for a new beginning all over again. He wants us to settle down together.

My problem is I’m so confused about him because of the way he acted. I’m still in love with him not minding the fact that he has kids already but I still have the white guy who I am dating but I don’t love him. I don’t know who to settle with for life.

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  1. victoria

    January 2, 2014 at 12:37 pm

    To М̣̣̥̇̊ε̲̣̣̣̥, I wuld S̶̲̥̅A̶̷̷̴̲̥̩̩̥̅̊̐͠♈̷̷̴̩̩̥̐ d black guy whom ♈ōϋ luv.

  2. owoseni adewale

    January 2, 2014 at 12:41 pm

    Marry with dat black man and settle but laeve dat white man bcos he has told you dat he would not marry but just to born kid for him

  3. I'm john unegbu my advic is love is an emotional filing not phisical emotional pain allso kill's more faster than bullet so nothing like settledown with whom you do not love

    January 2, 2014 at 12:58 pm

    I am john unegbu my advice is love is an emotional filling and emotional pain allso kill’s more faster than bullet so nothing like settledown with whom u do not love

  4. Bright

    January 2, 2014 at 1:00 pm

    Left to me, I will advice you to pray and seek Gods response. but for any relationship to yield positive result, love has to play an important role. You don’t love the white guy and he is not yet ready for marriage but the black guy, has given birth to kids. to me its a sign of marriage. So like I said initially, you need Gods response. Cos from my own perspective, non of them is meant for you.


    January 2, 2014 at 1:26 pm

    D black guy whom u luv, jst 4get d past n move on since he is ready 2 settle down wit u n d white guy whom u dnt luv bt u r both dating is nt ready 2 settle down bt jst 2 av kids wit u. Wat if afta havin d kids he want n den work out of ur lyf. N as 4 d black guys kids jst take dem as urs n move on.Do take care

  6. Olatunji

    January 2, 2014 at 1:27 pm

    My dear girl, don’t act as one who knows not what she wants. If you don’t love a man, you have no business with him. Two can not work together unless they agree. A man with 3 kids and no wife is surely irresponsible. He is uding you. Thats why he doesn’t want marriage. I think he is missing you pussy. Thats why he has come knocking. None of them is for you. Love grows if you put interest. Create interest in the white guy may be you can love him. Best of luck.

    • olu j

      January 2, 2014 at 3:33 pm

      You are God sent, this is the only candid and reasonable advice I have seen and good one for you, pls embrace it and move on, none of them are for you period. Stay blessed.

  7. Arowolo

    January 2, 2014 at 1:35 pm

    The white guy people think he doesn’t love you and d black guy u are inlove with how are you sure he loves you now?he may wants to keep sleeping with you you need to be convince he is real.Tell him to start introduction preparation with you if he is serious about settling down with you,he needs to come see your people even if the marriage won’t happen so soon that’s to know if he is serious as some guys don’t like to pass tru he rigourous of chasing another lady when they can easily lie to their ex that will consider them within a day.

  8. Vivian

    January 2, 2014 at 1:36 pm

    The black man with 3 kids are the kids for u? Then the black man must be heartless bc even after ur family intervened he still refused…now he has 3 kids. …He is very irresponsible. ..He should go n settle with his baby mamas…next when u are married he will say he doesn’t want more kids from u…would u want that?whit people always takes things one step at a time..when it’s right believe me he will propose but that black guy is a no no for me .

  9. bertha

    January 2, 2014 at 1:44 pm,

  10. Arowolo

    January 2, 2014 at 1:47 pm

    Olatunji you make sense jare,she needs to put the black guy love to test.You see that’s why whites play the best of love they will never lie to you they will say their mind.The deceit the white guy refused to play on her is what the black guy come back to play on her.How could a guy dumped a lady cuz she is self centered?not that she can’t cool?not that she exhibit serious bad character that pose a threat to marriage,she is not a cheat so why?girl watch ur back don’t just believe him if age isn’t on ur side let his parents visit urs then she will find it dificult to bring his parents on deceit.

  11. Abayomi

    January 2, 2014 at 2:24 pm

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  12. Hi dear, love is a feelings from the bottomless part of the heart, none of this guy is meant for u, dating a white man who just want kids n not ready for marriage n getting married to an irresponsible man who dumped u, when u needed him, despite the famil

    January 2, 2014 at 2:40 pm

    Hi dear, love is a feelings from the bottomless part of the heart, none of this guy is meant for u, dating a white man who just want kids n not ready for marriage n getting married to an irresponsible man who dumped u, when u needed him, despite the family intervention. Dat black guy has no respect for u n i dont think he loves u as u do, i would advice u to move ahead with someone else apart from those two, cos they dont have a good future for u, u are still very young, u can still find ur own husband out there, choose wisely dear n take good care of ursef, also pray to God, he will meet u at the appointed time.Rossy…

  13. immaculate

    January 2, 2014 at 3:46 pm

    My. Dear b4 u enter into marriage u need to pray hard to get God approval, bcos s a life time tin. In human perceptive d two guys are not meant 4 u, d white guy just told u his mind and u stil wnt to put head, and u said u don’t care abt d black guy having 3 kids fine, how are u sure he s back for good, some guys are beast they can go to d extend of seeing ur parent and u will think they are serious but just to get what they want and leave ur life in misery, so my dear sister u still have choice don’t loose hope just be strong in prayers God will surely intervene in ur case

  14. joy

    January 2, 2014 at 4:59 pm


  15. ranee

    January 2, 2014 at 5:09 pm

    Dear..u are still young and u can always find a person who can…truly love u..don waste ur life… I am also a woman and understand ur feelings…men don think like us…for them love is like a passing cloud..this black guy has left u before..after married and giving a child he will dump u…and why should u take care his kids…u are not the mum…if he loves u..first place he will not left u…u have to make a wise and smart choice..I know its will be painful to live the person we love…only time will heal ur pain..

  16. kinx

    January 2, 2014 at 6:39 pm

    Dear frnd, simple and short. Pray n ask Gods leading. Listen to dat stil vioce da spks in ur heart. Graciars

  17. Ezemagu Robinson

    January 2, 2014 at 7:36 pm

    Baby making machining go-ahead & sheet babies for the him, you don’t know what you want in lif

  18. Ezemagu Robinson

    January 2, 2014 at 7:40 pm

    Baby making machine go-ahead & sheet babies for him

    you don’t know what you want in life

  19. Alex

    January 2, 2014 at 8:29 pm

    Follow your heart. Marriage is all about love and happiness.

  20. sandra

    January 2, 2014 at 9:57 pm

    pls choose none of dem… An advice 4rm some1 who have bin tru something like this, i am happy 2day with the best man on earth let go of them both and you will surely find that right person.

  21. Bode

    January 2, 2014 at 10:24 pm

    Who do u tell when u first met them

  22. Edithchizobaazugama

    January 2, 2014 at 10:56 pm

    Shone both them

  23. Amaka

    January 3, 2014 at 5:58 am

    Girl move on with ur life None of dem worth ur luv

  24. Mos

    January 3, 2014 at 7:58 am

    U need to date 10 more guys b4 u settle down.

  25. Babs

    January 3, 2014 at 8:50 am

    Dear,u said u lov d black guy buh he left u despite all plead 4rm u n ur family n he’s even got 3 kids dat r not urs n he’s com begging u 2 come bck aftr toying wif ur feeling n hurting u;he’s not worth goin bck 2.And d white guy loves u buh he’s not ready 4 marriage @ 34 buh only 2 av kids wif u,dat should mak u knw he’s also d un serious type dat has no gud thn 2 offer u in ur relationship dan 2 make u baby producing machine;he’s not worth going 4 2 dearie. So,my own candid advice 2 u is 2 b prayerful 4 right guy 2 com asap cos non of d white n black guys u said is worth aving u @ all cos dey only wanna eat n run n make u useless . And pls work on ur temper n don’t b self-centred. God bless u .

  26. Divine

    January 3, 2014 at 9:17 am

    pray for God intervention Please I beg of you in name of God

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Relaxation Of CBD In NFL – An Insight



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There has been a lot of buzz around CBD in recent years, especially in the health and wellness industry.
Many sports associations and players around the world have also recognized CBD as a pro sports

However, one of the most coveted associations- the National Football League, more popularly known as
the NBD had been quite strict in its ban of cannabis related products, including CBD. But in recent times,
there seems to be some good news in store both for eh players and every CBD shop as the association is
considering lifting the blanket ban and allowing players to use CBD, which has become popular for its
medical properties.

What Is CBD?

Before we proceed to understand the decision of the NFL, it is important to understand what CBD is and
how it is different from the other cannabis product. CBD or cannabidiol is one of the primary chemicals
found in the cannabis plant, the other being THC. However, contrary to common beliefs, CBD is not
psychoactive in nature. It does not cause the user to feel ‘high.’ This is because high quality CBD does
not contain even trace amounts of THC, which is responsible for these reactions.

In fact, many recent studies indicate that CBD is an excellent medicine to cure several physical and
mental conditions, including chronic pain, anxiety, inflammation, and depression.

Why Do Sportspersons Recommend CBD Use?

If you are into sports and athletics, avoiding injuries is almost impossible. While painkillers may be
helpful in managing the pain, they have numerous side effects on the other organs of the body. That is
why many players and athletes are now in favor of using CBD to manage their pains and injuries.

Sourced from organically grown hemp, CBD helps in alleviating the pain without injuring any other
organs of the body. It is no wonder that players are in favor of using CBD in place of the synthetic drugs
that are available in the market.

CBD For Sleep

For your body to perform its best, it is important for it to be well-rested and rejuvenated. This can only
happen through sound sleep. For many players, who suffer from muscle cramps and injuries, getting
proper sleep becomes a challenge. CBD can be very helpful in those circumstances as well. By soothing
the nerves, CBD helps the body to fall asleep faster and also the quality sleep that it needs.

Good sleep can also help the body in replenishing its worn and torn tissues faster.

The Changes Anticipated In NFL

The NFL, which has one of the strictest policies regarding drug testing, is now considering changing its
policies, especially the ones that are related to CBD. The players who test positive for cannabis will not
be directly suspended from the team. Rather a fine will be imposed on them as per the number of times
that they test positive.

The threshold for testing has also been changed as the players now will only be tested during the first
two weeks of the training camp, in place of the April- August testing policy that was followed earlier.

These progressive changes seem to be a direct result of the changed perception that most people have
regarding CBD today.

It is also worthy to note here that CBD is legal in all the American states, with minor restrictions on the
amount and the concentration of the product. Players are the happiest with this new move as they are
of the opinion that CBD works much better and is far less addictive than the painkillers that are given on
prescription. Even the sports associations around the world are also likely to reconsider their policy on
CBD after this change.

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Actress Osas Ighodaro Celebrates Her 30th Birthday With Emotional Post



Actress Osas Ighodaro Celebrates Her 30th Birthday With Emotional Post
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Nigerian actress, Osas Ighodaro penned an emotional note via Instagram as she clocked 30-years-old on Monday.

To mark her birthday, the single mother of one posted a monochrome photo of herself as she wished for people to continue praying for those who lost their lives during these turbulent period.

Ighodaro wrote;

“Thank God for another year. Happy Birthday to me. If you know me, you know I absolutely love birthdays but this year it certainly hits different. I’m overwhelming grateful for life and thankful to God to be able to see another birthday bc unfortunately many haven’t and won’t have that opportunity.

I am hopeful for better days for myself, those that I love and hold dear and most certainly for my country Nigeria. I pray for unity, peace, harmony and togetherness. We all deserve it.

My birthday wish is to please continue to pray for those innocent lives lost. Please remain hopeful and focused because I truly believe better days are soon ahead by God’s grace.

Peace, Love and Blessings.”

See her post below:

The actress’ post

The actress’ post

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Exotic Resorts May Be the Best Bet for a Holiday



An exotic vacation usually means exploring a distant foreign country, whilst resorts are places
to go for rest, sport, or which offers a particular speciality, with many resorts being part of a
popular tourist destination or on or near a beach. If you are planning a vacation to an exotic
resort it can be a once-in-a-lifetime vacation to a far-flung destination or a luxurious place to
stay closer to home where you can enjoy some pampering.

Why stay at an exotic resort

Exotic resorts often offer all-inclusive vacation deals, along with other options that leave you
to plan your stay more precisely to your own wishes. These resorts offer excellent customer
service, superb accommodation and facilities and are usually to be found in beautiful settings.
Here are some of the best resorts from around the world for you to consider:

Four Seasons Resort, Seychelles
This famous resort has made many feel they have entered Paradise. The gentle ocean breeze
floats up the granite hillside and into your tree-house villa tucked away from the other guests
staying at the resort. This is perfect for encouraging you to relax, either by your private pool
or in the clear blue waters of Petite Anse Bay. Perfect for a romantic stay, there is a Spa for
pampering and the chance for a sunset meal on a deserted beach.

Some enjoy simply sitting on their balcony, gazing at the ocean between reading their book,
sketching or checking out international bookmakers and betting sites for the chance of a
flutter. If you want another type of adrenaline kick, check out the resorts excellent kayaking
and snorkelling facilities, which are recommended by nearly all who try it.

Anantara Resort, Hua Hin, Thailand

The ultimate tropical getaway, the Anantara Resort is an award-winning site modelled on a
traditional Thai village and is just three hours drive south of Bangkok. The location is where
Thai royalty and aristocrats have been holidaying for almost one-hundred years. Today, you
can visit historical attractions alongside theme parks and shops as well as vineyards and golf

The resort is set among 14 acres of lush tropical grounds with lotus-filled lagoons and
meandering pathways through exotic foliage, with many rooms overlooking the shoreline.
Each day, chefs prepare freshly caught local seafood alongside Thai specialities. The resort
also has an award-winning spa located within a lagoon-inspired oasis offering you the perfect
opportunity to relax.

Kurumba, Maldives

Kurumba is a well-established resort that opened almost 50 years ago and continues to offer
superb hospitality and contemporary facilities. There are seven speciality restaurants offering
cuisine from Italy to the Middle East as well as Thila, a restaurant which extends out over the
water which offers gourmet breakfasts and seafood dinners.

You can go snorkelling over the nearby reef full of colourful marine life or sign up to a dive
package as part of your stay, or just enjoy a private pool when staying at one of the spacious
villages. There are also deluxe beachfront bungalows offering direct beach access and views
of the crystal-clear waters.

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