I’ve been best friends with this lady for 15 years but I have been sleeping with her husband behind her back.
She has been married for 10 years and I’ve been sleeping with her husband for almost 9years now. We even have a 7-year-old son and a 3-year-old daughter together.
My best friend does not have the slightest idea of what has been going on as she knows nothing about the affair am having with her husband. She even thinks the kids I have was as a result of one night stand I had.
Her husband sees his kids regularly (the ones we have together), pays child support and pays rents & utilities. We are so close that she is my kids godmother, her own kids come over to have play dates.
Now her husband has gotten a gotten divorce papers and waiting to file them, he wants me to be with me and the kids.
I’m really confused because I don’t know how to tell her? Should I be the one to tell her since I knew her first or should her husband tell because they’re married? Or should we all just sit down and talk?