Connect with us

Lifestyle

My New Boss Is My Wife’s Ex She Dumped For Me..What Should I Do?

Published

on

I’m confused and worried, I just found out that my new boss is the man my wife dumped a few years ago to marry me.

sad_man_wor

Apparently the man was planning to marry her and even saw her through her university days financially and also supported her family.

My wife and I met during our NYSC, fell in love and got married shortly after. My wife found a way of breaking up with her ex (my new boss).

Now 4 years into our marriage, there’s a big issue. I just got this really good job and my direct boss happens to be the man my wife dumped for me.

Unfortunately he knows who I am because he confronted me back when my wife left him for me, but since I started this job, he hasn’t said anything to me but I noticed he excludes me from most of the activities that concern staff and I suspect he’s trying to sabotage me.

He hasn’t done anything yet, I’m just worried that he has bad plans for me. Should I quit or should I wait to see what he’s up to? I don’t look forward to going to work at all.

Continue Reading
8 Comments

8 Comments

  1. labake

    December 6, 2013 at 5:52 pm

    I want to subscribe

  2. mofu ifechukwude

    December 6, 2013 at 6:39 pm

    what we will say about the thing call love at times we guys cause problem ourselves by taking advantage of our youthful age.

    You should put yourself in your boss shoes back in the days how will you feel and we let this so called love thing that reduce man to no level to detoraite and ruin a man. He invested on her and her family may be he is too old or educationally not up to,but your wify accepts all the offer uptill graduation.
    If it happens to your own daugther now how will you both react ?
    See bbibles says what ever belongs to you shall never be taking away from you. God did this as an example for you to learn because you met someone in Nysc from there to marriage and ur so called wife did not remember the good and blessing he got frrom the man only to turn him down cos of a young man she felt she fall in love.

    Face it and be prayerful he did not kill you,so u need to run for your head cos he is a big short they can do and undo

  3. Hadephezoye

    December 6, 2013 at 9:38 pm

    My advise for you is that if this your boss didn’t have it in mind to terminate ur appointment,soo you have no reason why u should quit the job by urseif and make sure you perfect anytin u order to do in the office,the reason why I say soo is that its becuz you’re performing ur duties and ur responsibility at home that make’s u feel dt such wife really love u,if u loose ur job now no matter how u want to do it,dt ur boss we use everytin to eunties ur wife b4 they are 1 b4,2condly, u need to find out everytin frm ur wife,ask her that did she knw so so so person,what’s her feeling to ur boss,finally go and meet ur boss and explaine everytin to him soo to knw the type of wife you’re deal with.

  4. Leo the great

    December 6, 2013 at 10:16 pm

    The best thing to do is to try as hard as possible to run away. Find a job then run away coz he is most likely to do you much harm

  5. shabol

    December 7, 2013 at 12:54 pm

    Pray to God to help u out,commit ur boss’s heart into God’s hands & later talk to ur boss & ask for his 4givness.Pls always do ur best @ work & be humble.May God help u in jesus name.

  6. victor

    December 8, 2013 at 5:32 pm

    gud day ,i dont c d reason y u shd quit or run away. wot if u ar quotn hm wrong bcus of hs actns? well i feel he z feeln inferior to u dats y he z avoidn u, soo i tink u shd jst remain do ur duties make sure he does nt c anytin to hold as a reason to terminate ur job.also put hm into prayers let God take charge kkkkk.Dont fear gooooood luck.

  7. Fujidon

    December 12, 2013 at 3:29 pm

    My dear no need to terminate ur job ok,see some one may do everything 4u may be u people are not ment to be it may be a way God wants to bless & raise u through that person.if u see the whole story this man is a savior to u & ur wife believ it or not he train ur wife now he is ur boss tink abt it.the thing u wil do is this do ur work & give the best try to go closer to him to no his reaction over u.becareful & pray but the mistake u wil do is to quit the job God knows y he put u their.try to be friendly to him to an extent then disscus the issue wit him,dnt bleam anybody in his present let him no is how God want it to be & u people should let the past b the past lets work for the future Go with ur wife.dnt be afraid notin wil hapen to God is with

  8. Tangela

    May 24, 2014 at 2:49 pm

    Gee whiz, and I thhgout this would be hard to find out.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Health and Food

Avoid These Nigerians Food To Burn Stubborn Belly Fat (Video)

Published

on

Being overweight or obese can be detrimental to your health. It is not advisable to have excess fat in the abdominal cavity because it can lead to some health issues. Getting your dream body will not be easy and you need to make some sacrifices to your diet. You will also need to turn a blind eye to some fatty foods.

If you’re ready to get rid of the belly fat, then stay put as Information Nigeria brings you some important tips that will help.

1. Avoid sugar and carbonated drinks

Did you know that consuming sugary substances like coke, fanta can lead to weight gain and a number of health problems like high blood pressure?. This is due to the high fructose content found in added sugars. Taking sugar-filled drinks may slow your metabolism and this in turn can make it harder for your body to burn fat. Fructose can only be metabolized by your liver. When you consume too much, you push your liver to its limit and it becomes overloaded, then it turns the fructose into fat and it ends up getting stored in your belly. To avoid putting yourself from risk, you should cut back on foods and drinks that contain huge amounts of sugar.

 

2. You also have to forgo junk foods like meat pie, cakes, rolls, candies, burgers, ice cream and cookies. You also need to do away with heavy foods like eba, akpu, pounded yam, rice among others. Switch up your eating habits and opt for a more balanced-diet if you want to burn your belly fat. Avoid consuming refined carbs like bread, pizza, potation chips etc. You should also stay away from processed and heavy foods because they contribute to stubborn belly fat. You should choose to eat proteinous foods like fish, eggs, and milk. starch contains fat, sugar and salt. They help a person feel fuller so you don’t end up looking for something to munch on after eating. It basically keeps hunger at bay.

3. Eat the right amount of fruits, vegetables, fibrous foods and whole grains – You can add vegetables, fruits and whole grains to your weight loss diet. They provide essential vitamins, minerals, fiber and other substances that are good for your body. Examples of fibre rich foods include; beans, broccoli, avocados, apples, oatmeal brown rice and whole grain bread.

4. Try to incorporate exercise into your daily or weekly routine – Exercise helps to speed up your metabolism and helps you shed weight. The bitter truth is that wearing just waist trainers and staying put in one position will not make you lose that stubborn belly fat. You should hit the gym.

5 Reduce alcohol intake – Excess intake of alcohol also leads to a host of health problems especially the build-up of fat in the belly area. Have you ever noticed that those who drink alcohol, especially men, often develop ‘pot-bellies’. Alcoholic drinks like beer provide your body with calories and very little nutrients. It can also increase your appetite. Replace the alcoholic drinks with water or alternate with low calorie, non-alcoholic beverages. Too much alcohol can cause liver damage and other serious health problems.

6. Try out apple cider vinegar – Apple cider vinegar is made in a two-step fermentation process. It is obtained from apples that have been crushed, distilled and fermented. Acetic acid is the main active component of apple cider vinegar. It is safe for consumption in small quantities and can be taken as a supplement. Do not also consume it straight from the bottle or in its pure form. Add 1 to 2 tablespoons to water before you drink. You can also add honey or lemon. It is best to drink it before your meals. Research shows it has many health benefits, such as lowering blood sugar levels.

Continue Reading

Entertainment

Williams Uchemba And His Wife Exchange Wedding Vows In Lagos (Video)

Published

on

Williams Uchemba and his wife, Brunella Oscar

Williams Uchemba and his wife, Brunella Oscar

Popular Nigerian actor, Williams Uchemba and his wife, Brunella Oscar have officially solemnized their union.

The couple finally exchanged their wedding vows at Dominion city church in Lagos state.

The beautiful wedding ceremony was reportedly officiated by the founder of the church, Dr. David Chukwudi Ogbueli alias Papa Eagle.

Celebrities, fans and well-wishers poured in congratulatory message for the couple after photos and videos from the ceremony hit the internet.

The actor wore a sleek tuxedo, while his bride,  wore a lovely white gown.

Read Also:Actor Williams Uchemba Set To Walk Down The Aisle With Mystery Woman

Watch the videos below:

https://twitter.com/gregorogholi/status/1330121905387540483?s=21

Continue Reading

Entertainment

Actor, Model, Comedian, Philanthropist… Meet The Latest Groom, Williams Uchemba

Published

on

Williams Uchemba

Williams Uchemba

Williams Uchemba, who was born on October 22, is an actor, motivational speaker, model, comedian, entrepreneur and philanthropist. The Abia-born thespian graduated with a Bachelor’s Degree in International Relation from the University of Nigeria, Nsukka in Enugu State.

Uchemba began his career in the early 2000s as a child actor and came into the limelight in 2001 after appearing in the Nollywood blockbuster movie, “The Journey of the Dead” along with Olu Jacobs, Ramsey Noah, and Pete Edochie.

Since then, the multi-talented actor never looked back as he has gone ahead to feature in more blockbuster movies like Sugar Rush (2019), Merry Men 2(2019) and Story Story: The African Rideshare (2018). He is the recipient of several awards.

The actor adopted an 18-year-old furniture maker in June and he promised to sponsor his education. He recently got married to his longtime girlfriend, Brunella Oscar at her hometown, Alor in Anambra state. The actor’s wife, Brunella opened up on their love story with Wedding Digest Naija and she disclosed that she made the first move. According to the English trained medical doctor, they both met on Facebook after she sent him a message.

 

Continue Reading

Trending