4 Ways to Tell If You’re a Ride Or Die Wife

images (4)In today’s world, some couples break up at the first sign of distress. Before I got married I decided that I would do my best to stay married. I vowed to do my part to keep the marriage strong. So after 16 years of marriage, I labeled myself a ride or die wife. I have my husband’s back and I’m staying through thick and thin. You want to know what makes me a ride or die wife? I’m honoring my vows.

1. For better or for worse – I have stayed with my husband. We have had plenty of better and worse. Our marriage has had great times when I fall in love with him over and over. And our marriage has had times where I questioned marrying him. We have had plenty of arguments and disagreements and yes I’ve had thoughts of leaving, but I never did…so I’m a ride or die wife.

2. For richer or for poorer – We have both been employed, one of us unemployed, and both of us unemployed. Since money is the number one reason for divorce and I’m still in the marriage, I’m a ride or die wife.

3. In sickness and in health – We are going through that now. My husband has an illness that rendered him temporarily disabled. It has been a hard road, but he is on the way to being healed. Some may not be able to handle an illness or disability, but because I’m honoring that vow, I’m a ride or die wife.

4. To love and to cherish – Yes I will love my husband even when I’m mad at him. He is the head of our household, the father of my children and a man of God. To cherish means to value and appreciate. I do cherish my husband because he is indeed valuable. Since I love and cherish my husband, I’m a ride or die wife.

Marriage is a ride for two. There will be smooth roads where you can close your eyes and relax and there will be bumpy roads where you have to hold on a little tighter and work with your husband to get over the humps. Don’t be so quick to jump off the ride when it gets scary, hold on and ride that ride.

BMWK

1 COMMENT

  1. Yes u are right, in some cases is not like dat we have men dat don’t cherich their wife bcos of women out side and d woman do everytin 2 pls him but they don’t appreciat so is not all women dat will rIde and die tnx.