I Can’t Forget The First Time I Made Love To My Wife – Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde’s Husband

Nollywood actress, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde’s husband, Captain Matthew Ekeinde in a recent interview with Entertainment Express talks about his wife and their marriage.



What is the secret of your 17 year old marriage to Omotola?

I won’t say we have been good because I am a fine boy (laughs), but it is just the grace of God. I am so lucky and also blessed by God to have married my God given partner.

That is a very important thing about marriage, you have to find and marry your God given partner. That is why a lot marriages breakup. Some men marry women because of their hips, their boobs, legs and some other side attractions. But after sex with her so many times, what happens next? Does she have a good attitude, character or good human relationship with others? I am not saying we are perfect couple, we have our own differences but we are compatible.

We have been married for over 17 years with four beautiful kids. One thing that has been working for us as a couple is that I always encourage her to be who she wants to be. I give her full support always. Lots of married women that are caught cheating on their husbands could be traced to the fact that some of their husbands don’t allow them explore their talents.

I encourage my wife and kids to be what they want to be. Most of the influential men and women we have in this world didn’t even go to school. So it is all about exploiting your talents. Some women love acting but their husbands won’t let them believing that other men would touch or exploit them sexually. It is all about discipline. Those that want to cheat will cheat; it is all about self control.

So when you see your wife kissing on set, you don’t get jealous?

No! Not all. My wife tells me about her acting. Most times she even complains that some actors she acts love scenes with have mouth or body odour that she can’t wait to leave this scene.  So I even pity her on what she has to go through and endure being an actress.

This acting thing is just some minute acts and that is it. Will she follow the actor home? Lots of homes have been broken because of too pressure on the wife or even the kids.

For the 17 years that you have been married, what are those special moments you can’t forget in a hurry?

Hmmm! Truly and honestly, I can’t forget the very first day I made love to my wife.


  1. this is shameless! man. how can you say such a private thing in the public? shame on you Ooo… is that the only thing striking to remember for 17years? na wa for you Ooo Mr Pilot. At least, for her integrity, you should have saved her that statement…! Na your wife nahhh…! You’ve Gat to apologies to her privately.

  2. Sum pple ve very low way of tinkin,wat wrong if he said or is it not a tin to rememba…if u like complain frm here till tomorow,omotola is beta den u and wl neva no if poor like u exist..abeg Mr mathew carry go u too much

  3. Sum pple ve very low way of tinkin,wats wrong if he said dat or is it not a tin to rememba…if u like complain frm here till tomorow,omotola is beta den u, and wl neva no if poor pple like u even exist..abeg Mr mathew carry go u too much

  4. Most homes are broken for sexual incompatibility. Many African men and women cant expres sheir sexual feelings to their spouses. No matter the level of a family’s comfort, it is incomplete without sexual satisfaction.. Couples, learn from Captain Ekeinde.Actresses are not all prostitutes.There are innocent and ignorant bad eggs in all professions.

  5. Some people are backward what is the big deal if he said dat people that are judging are you better off nawa nigerians need to take a break abeg una own don too much haba wat nonsense

  6. Honestly they are somethings u don’t ve to mention no matter what, believe it or not if they allow Mr. Mattew he will mention everything that happen between his wife n himself on bed, this is unfair….even if ur wife is a s*x machines u don’t need to tells others.

  7. some comments here re so immature. There’s nothing wrong if the man said one of the things he remembered most is their first intimate moment. Put into consideration that they married when she was very young. He is her husband, he’s allowed to say anything about their relationship. am so proud of the union. God bless ur home real good. Some of u talking need to hear ao ur gf or bf talks abt ur sexual life n u will be shocked.

  8. Ah,,, it’s not so good to say it, for security reasons, you are exposing her to more troubles. If you know how many men that can do anything to have omotola, you will be carefull of things you say or do with that angel in your house. I can tell you that even though i cant get her but i love her so much that any where i see her pics it takes me much time looking at her.

  9. If I hear say dis man na fyn boi u guys are nt compatable physically at all u luk older dan her by far.see ur white bears.omotola dis man is too old for u

  10. What is rong if he says that he can’t forget the first day he made love to his wife not urs wife . evrytin Niger man wil like to complain. Is it easy for a woman to keep her virginity till marriage. My dear I like what you said it wil make ur wife to feel valued and on top.pls we ladies should note this keeping ur virginity for ur future partner matters alot


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