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I Dis-Virgined My Wife — Nigerian Comedian, Holy Mallam Reveals



Nigerian Comedian, Ajibola Adebayo, popularly known as Holy Mallam and his wife, Ijeoma, share the story of their eight-year-old union.


How did you meet?

  I had seen him perform before and I was impressed with his style of presentation. The day we met, he hosted a show organised by my friend.   When it was time for him to leave, he could not because someone was blocking his car.  During the brief period he waited to move his car, we got talking and he gave me his call card.  When I got home that night, I decided to call him since he did not have my number. I felt it would be nice to have a comedian as a friend.  This was in May 2004. We have been married for eight years.

Holy Mallam:    I was in a hurry to leave the venue of the show in order to go and see a lady I was interested in at the time.   When Ijeoma called me that night, I was in the lady’s house. After her call and subsequent calls from me, we became friends and I eventually left the lady for her.

How did he propose?

Ijeoma: It was not spectacular, no ceremony. One day we were in the car and he said, ‘if we should get married right now your children would be Yoruba.  After a week, he just came and thrust a ring into my hand and I just collected it. Unfortunately it was too big for my fingers and he had to return it to the shop.

Why did you leave that other lady?

Holy Mallam:
 I was still talking to her, trying to get her to agree for us to date but she was giving me too many conditions.  The process was taking too long.

Were you a virgin at the time he met you?

Holy Mallam: She was.

Are you joking?

Holy Mallam: No. I am serious.   I had already told God that I wanted to marry a virgin.

Is he your first lover?

Ijeoma: Yes.

Why? You had gone through secondary school, the university and then went for national youth service..

Ijeoma: I just think it is God.  I gave my life to Christ when I was in Junior Secondary School.    Another thing was that I am a very shy person. I dreaded the thought of going to bed with a man, telling myself that I may not be able to face him in the morning.  I had male friends but our relationships did not last more than one month because along the line, the man would want intimacy as a proof of love. Then, our fellowship coordinator always cautioned us to keep ourselves pure.  He would tell us that if we disobeyed God, we would get pregnant.  Somebody else also told me that if a man married me as a virgin, he would appreciate me so much and give me whatever I wanted.

Was it after the wedding that you had sex with him for the first time?

Ijeoma: Yes. It was three days after the wedding because I was too scared.   But on a Monday, my husband said, ‘we can’t continue like this.  I have paid and have done everything.’

Holy Mallam: It was a very big wedding. Over 1000 guests attended and I was too tired on the night of the wedding to do anything. That was a good excuse for her.

Did you have to read about how to deflower a lady?

Holy mallam: No.

Ijeoma:  I read it up on the internet and was able to guide him.

What will happen if you discover your husband has cheated on you?

Ijeoma: I don’t know if he would ever cheat because I am free with his phone.    One day, when I asked him to tell me what would prevent him from cheating on me, he just said, ‘the fact that I fear God.’ That settled the matter for me.   I always tell God to keep him for me and I would be foolish to assume that it can never happen. The devil is out for Christians.  He does not go to club houses and he does not drink. He may not meet some of those girls but what about the ones inside the church?

Holy Mallam: There is no superman anywhere. Anything that we want to achieve can only be made possible by the grace of God. I meet a lot of ladies, some even ask me to sign autographs on their breasts. As a Christian, I don’t respond to such gestures.   I always carry my wife on my mind. I know that I will always go home to her at the end of the day.

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  1. ken shedrack

    October 13, 2013 at 10:17 pm

    Holy mallam I hail u sha,as for madam I hail u pass cos there are just a handful of women as u in this present day.


    October 14, 2013 at 12:06 am

    Holy Mallam is so lucky. Women like his wife are rare to find

  3. Gabi

    October 14, 2013 at 8:08 am

    I hail the madam well well. Holy mallam I sure say you be the wrong guy for the this woman for you to dey broadcast this thing up and down. But make una nor talk dis kind thing again o make una nor go cause katakata ooo

  4. smart taiwo

    October 14, 2013 at 1:39 pm

    this story is so hilarious why cant u take it to guinness book of record

  5. Okey D

    October 14, 2013 at 3:45 pm

    U claimed you disvirgined her, what about you?, did she disvirgin you? If she didn’t disvirgin you, that means you’ve got what you dont deserve and should henceforth be called UN-HOLY mallam..

  6. Don Domenco

    October 17, 2013 at 9:22 pm

    Ya my brother thanks for this story.It serves to encourage our younger one who nolonger have the opportunity of example of sane and Godly living.I pray God to keep you for His glory.This I ask in Jesus name,amen.

  7. princess

    January 24, 2014 at 8:12 am

    pretty woman u got dere just take of her nd to all our girls learn frm ds story ur virginity is ur glory dont trade it for any reason keep it for ur husband nd urseif let ur husband be proud of u.

  8. Edey Philemon

    March 12, 2014 at 8:18 am

    Holly mallaaaam my role model, am just happy for u nd thanking God 4 ur life, so many celeb dnt hav such testimony as urs, i pray i be like u nd more than u in Jesus Name, stay bless brother nd take gud care of dat gud tin God gave u, ur wife…

  9. miley

    March 8, 2018 at 6:43 pm

    Holy mallam is very lucky. I love his comedies.

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Car Dealer Calls Out Comedian Ebiye For Reselling Benz He Bought On Credit



Car Dealer Calls Out Comedian Ebiye For Reselling Benz He Bought On Credit

Comedian, Ebiye

US based car dealer, Mr. Psalms has taken to Twitter to call out online comedian, Ebiye for purchasing a Mercedes Benz on credit and defaulting on payment.

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In the screenshots, the comedian had agreed to pay for the luxury automobile in installments but he reneged.

Ebiye sold off the Benz and he used the money to invest in Forex rather than sorting out his debts.

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'It’s Not A Must To Speak Or Comment On What You Know Nothing About' - Nengi Cautions Rumormongers
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The reality TV star had reacted to an old tweet put out by co-star, Laycon in April which reads;

“Do you people know that when you see a tweet you disagree with or you don’t like, you can actually scroll past it. Like it’s an option, you don’t have to comment on everything… stop doing cho cho cho cho on people’s tweets.”

The former beauty queen re-quoted the tweet and she wrote;

“My G you need to update this tweet to  stop doing cho cho cho on people’s life not just tweets.Y’all need to stop looking for ways to spread lies about people you don’t know on the internet. It’s not a must to speak or comment on what you know nothing about .Live and let live !”

Fellow ex-housemate, Vee also responded saying;

“My dear they won’t listen. Awon werey. Nengi is normal o! Me I get craze, if you like, spread lies”

Nengi went on to appeal to her fans to stop trolling people on her behalf because she is all about ‘peace and love’.

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The ex-housemates’ tweets

The ex-housemates’ tweets

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‘Being Bitter, Quarrelsome And Outrightly Foolish Does Not Make You A Feminist’ – Actress Queen Nwokoye



‘Being Bitter, Quarrelsome And Outrightly Foolish Does Not Make You A Feminist’ - Actress Queen Nwokoye
Nollywood actress, Queen Nwokoye

Nollywood actress, Queen Nwokoye

Nigerian actress, Queen Nwokoye has said that being bitter, quarrelsome and outrightly foolish doesn’t make a person a ‘feminist.’

The film star made this remark after a lady took a swipe at men, who are complaining about the viral logo which she created for the #EndSARS movement.

The lady, @ireaderinokun tweeted;

“Men are so pained about this female symbol. I love to see it”

The actress re-quoted the tweet and she wrote;

“This is what I hate about these fake twitter feminists who obviously don’t know what feminism is all about. Being bitter,quarrelsome, hateful and outrightly foolish does not make you a feminist. It makes you a sick person. Bringing up gender war now is your agenda right?”

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The actress’ tweet

The actress’ tweet

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