[Advice Needed] Should I Stay With My Boyfriend Or Reconcile With My Ex?

images cheatingDear Tee,
My ex and I broke up 2months ago. Last month, I started dating another guy. Now, my boyfriend wants me back, I love him so much but he does not care about me. My current boyfriend is very caring, he loves me so much, but I don’t have deep love for him like I have for my boyfriend. Should I stick with my boyfriend or go back to my ex whom I really love.
Chinny.

Dear Chinny,
First, Love is a decision, and you choose who to love…. So, you can actually love your current boyfriend if you really wanna. I think you were not over your ex before you went into your new relationship…. Now, I feel you should give yourself a break and think about who you deserve….. Do you want your ex who doesn’t treat you right or a man who care about you? Think about this and take the necessary steps. But remember, love is a decision and you choose to love someone! No one can’t be loved if you truly want to love them.
All the best,
Tee.

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16 COMMENTS

  1. First of all,i will advice u 2 be very careful in ur decision b4 taking any.Remember dat u jst met dis new guy.What mks u think he wil alwys care 4 u as he’s doing nw???I suggest u gv urself a brk 4rm both of them 4 sum tym so u cn hv a clear thinking/reasoning.

  2. First of all i am sorry for the break up @Chinny but i must be sincere, you were to fast to enter into another relationship just two months you had a break up. You should have given yourself sometime to think and put yourself together. Secondly, you were too fast to tell us that the second guy to started dating is caring and loving because you have only known him for just a month or two so he is willing to do everything possible to make you think he loves you or rather cares about you. Therefore, he might simply be an opportunist who have been waiting that opportunity to come. So take your time and put yourself together, think and find out if the second guy truly loves you or he just want to take advantage of your situation and then abandon you. Dear Tee, i thank you for your advice and contribution, we cannot decide for her what she wants because its a matter of decision. Chinny take your time and think, decide what you really want.

  3. First of all i am sorry for the break up @Chinny but i must be sincere, you were to fast to enter into another relationship just two months you had a break up. You should have given yourself sometime to think and put yourself together. Secondly, you were too fast to tell us that the second guy you started dating is caring and loving because you have only known him for just a month or two so he is willing to do everything possible to make you think he loves you or rather cares about you. Therefore, he might simply be an opportunist who have been waiting for that opportunity to come. So take your time and put yourself together, think and find out if the second guy truly loves you or he just want to take advantage of your situation and then abandon you. Dear Tee, i thank you for your advice and contribution, we cannot decide for her what she wants because its a matter of decision. Chinny take your time and think, decide what you really want.

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