[Advice Needed] Should I End My Life Now? This Trouble Is Hurting Me!!!!

images (20)Hi Tee,
I am 19 years old and I am living with my mother since my father divorced her. I am the first child of four children. After the divorce, my father stopped catering for us and I have been struggling, working hard in different factories for money. I have been trying to further my education into the higher institution since I finished secondary school in 2010, but all to no avail.
I have worked for three years in the factory without any achievement, without any good advice from my parents. I find it hard to buy clothes when I collect the small salary I earn because I don’t want to go broke before the month runs out. I have decided to kill myself and end this hardship. Is it better to take my life and end it all there?
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S

Dear S,
I understand what you are going through and I am very sorry about it. Hmmmn, life is not a bed of roses; there are some difficult situations one would pass through in life before achieving success. Ask the world’s greatest people today, they would tell you the hell the passed through before making success. If they had committed suicide, they would not have been what they are today. Suicide is not the way to solve the solution!!! Ok, I understand you are working in a factory and you want to see yourself through school, I think you should start saving something – no matter how small the money might be….you could start by saving say 500naira at the end of ebery month when you collectyour salary. Before you know what is happening, you have a substantial amount to get your JAMB form if you already have your O’levels. If you don’t have your O’levels, you can register for WAEC GCE/ NECO as the case may be. Just make sure you start saving as from the end of this month and make sure you are consistent. Dear, forget about buying expensive clothes for now, it doesn’t matter the kind of costly clothes yur friends may be putting on now, don’t get intimidated, everyone has their own time and yours would definitely come. Don’t get too bothered about your parent’s divorce, i think you should focus on your life right now, you should also help your mother in the little way you can.
All is going to be fine, it is just a matter of a little time. Also, involve God and tell him what you are passing through, pray, He is ready to answer you.
FINALLY, PROMISE ME YOU WOULD NOT COMMIT SUICIDE, YOU ARE TOO PRECIOUS TO BE LOST, YOU ARE A WORLD CHANGER, THE SOLUTION YOUR GENERATION NEED FOR A BETTER WORLD IS IN YOUR HANDS!!!!

Wish you well,
Tee.

10 COMMENTS

  1. Dear s,
    Are u taking ur life bcoz u can not afford beautiful cloths or is it for not being able 2 further ur edu?
    Hmm, i pray God opens ur eyes to c what awaits u nd that what u re passing through now is just not quater of what other had seen,and is still going through. Just remember that for a gold to be pure…it must pass through a very hot furnace…so pls don’t even think of taking ur life

  2. My dear,life is nt a bed of roses,am a living testimony.i saw myself tru 4rm secondary school till dis level(HND holder) & am still moving forward by HIS GRACE.Its nt easy but in everything put GOD first HE ll surely c u tru like HE did 2 me.I dont even knw wot its like 2 v a father bc he died wen i ws very tender but all d same i tank GOD.had it been dat i committed suicide den i would nt v reach 2 dis stage.so my dear talk 2 GOD HE is ever ready 2 help u.

  3. You are lucky to have a job. One million and one graduates are out there looking for jobs. Taking your life is not the solution. Give your life to christ the redeemer and He will change your story. Don’t commit suicide and go to hell fire where it’s eternity. God will help you

  4. My dear, in as much as it may be hard for u to believe,God loves u and died so u might LIVE. He took away ur sorrow so u may rejoice. Go to Him and claim ur blessings which are in His words. He never changes and He is not partial. You are His daughter and His blessings are yours. Only believe and seek Him. Remember, he died so u might LIVE.

  5. HELO BRO, I UNDERSTAND HOW U FEEL RIGHT NOW BECAUSE ITS NOT EASY HAVING NO HELPER AROUND U, JUST HANG ON, U NO GR8T PEOPLE ARE NOT FULL OF EASY LIFE, THEY AR ALWAYS FORCEFUL MEN. JUST TRY SOMETHING NEW, MAYBE A LIFE U HAV NOT LIVED B4 AND SEE. U CAN MAKE IT BRO. ENDING UR LIFE IS NOT BEST SOLUTION TO THIS PROBLEM. HOPE ON NO ONE BT GOD ALONE.