[Advice Needed] No Other Lady Can Fill The Void In My Heart!!! What Do I Do?

images (2)Dear Tee,

I am still in love with my ex-girlfriend. No lady has been able to fill the void in my heart ever since we broke up. Actually, we are in a long distance relationship ad she cheated on me. I was so furious and broke up with her. I felt she might have been indulging in that for a long time and I refused to listen to her pleas. Now, I miss her so much and I do want her back, I feel I should not have over reacted. What should I do?

GG

Dear GG,

I am sorry about the situation you are in, but then, your reaction is expected, because you were hurt. However, if your girlfriend is willing to repent, then you should forgive her. I think the criteria for accepting back a cheating partner is if they acknowledge their actions as wrong, they are ready to change their attitude and never to go back to it. If your girlfriend is willing to do this, you should forgive her. But if she would still continue to cheat on you, then you should deal with your emotions and set your head straight. You can get over anybody, I say it again – anybody, if you make up your mind to let them go.

All the best,
Tee.

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