[Advice Needed] How Do I Convince Her Parents To Allow Her Marry Me Now? I Can’t Wait Any Longer!!!

Dear Tee,
I am in love with a 20 year old girl who is in 200 level in the University of Portharcourt. I am 35 years old. I also have a good job and I am very comfortable. Now, I am ready to get married, but her parents want her to complete her education. I can’t wait any longer because I am not getting younger. How do I convince her parents to allow her marry me.
James

Dear James,
I don’t think there is a need to convince her parents. I understand that her parents wants their daughter to have a degree before marriage, it would not be easy for her to manage her education and marriage. I understand the age thing you are talking about, but then I also feel you should wait if you love her. But if you can’t wait, you should tell her the reasons for your actions and then get someone who is ready just like you, but then…..be careful in your decision….patience is a virtue!
All the best,
Tee.

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