[Advice Needed] We Met Online, But She Wouldn’t See Me In Person! What Should I Do?

Dear Tee,
So I met this girl on facebook and we started chatting. And I felt totally in love with her. She felt the same way too. But I didn’t tell her that I like her. I know she was expecting me to ask her out, but I never did. This is simply because I wanted to be sure that she really loves me for me, as I already told her of my wealth. She is always calling and talking to me. But I didn’t ask her out. 2, 3, 4 months….we were still talking, but we never met. At some point, I wanted to tell her how I feel about her, but I decided to tell her in person. So, I told her that we need to see each other. And that was where the trouble started, she started giving me excuses. And she started ignoring me as well… This is the girl that can’t have a good day without talking to me. Please, what do you think I should do?
From Fred.

Dear Fred,
I am sorry about what happened. There are a thousand and one reasons she changed to you. We wouldn’t know which is which, but I implore you to move on with your life. Its a good thing you were really patient about asking her out….. And since you have not started dating her and all that, it would be a little easier for you to forge ahead. Forget the past, develop yourself to be the right person and the right girl would come around.
Wish you well.


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