[Advice Needed] My Girlfriend Is Over Demanding! She Wants a 100k Brazilian Hair I Can’t Afford! Please Help!

My girlfriend is never satisfied with me. She wants more of everything. If I give her money, she wants more. If I take her shopping, she would exhaust my money without having compassion on me. I just started working and I earn little. Recently, I gave her 40k for a blackberry phone, I don’t even use a blackberry! Last night, I got a message from her demanding 100k for a brazilian hair and shoes she wants to wear to my cousin’s wedding next week. I am tired of her over-demands. Sometimes, she threatens to leave me if I don’t respond to her needs. What should I do?

Sincerely,
Uche.

Dear Uche,
Its a pity your girlfriend is not considerate. Well, I think you should talk to her about it. Let her know you like her just the way she is, without the brazilian hair….lol. Also, tell her to get engaged in business or something that would fetch her income, so that she wouldn’t always be a burden to you financially. However, if she continues to threaten to leave you, then let her leave. You won’t steal because you want to satisfy your girlfriend. I hope this helps.

Sincerely,
Tee.

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10 COMMENTS

  1. Uchenna if you know U are not going to marry the girl why still hang on an expensive girl, when U know your salary is small. If what she is giving you is equivalent to what you are giving to her continue.

  2. Uche u re a bunch of disappointment to ur generation. The 40k u gave to girl cos of dat 4ml something, hv u given 4k to ur mother at once since u was born. If u hv had access to her cunt why nt let her go nd continue her gold digging somewhere else.

  3. Guy the best thing is if u don’t the money tell her that the money is not there,then if she threatens to leave again then allow her to go.After all you’ll surely find a girl that will love you for who you are and not cos of your money.

  4. Oga mi no vex i be babe bt presently am doing somfing to assist myself and 2 less d burden from my guy…see we plenty better live bcus she will end up killing u if u cnt satisfy her..abi u like am so?

  5. My guy better leave dat girl and plan ur llife she don’t have any atom of love for u bcos if she have she suppose to know dat doz useless tins shhe demands frm u will go a long way in boosting ur investment

  6. Guy man uche,wise ooo… nor go let dat girl kpai u oo because of material possession..
    Like u earlier said,u just got a job. You have to plan ur life n save too. Also,from your writeup,i can tell you have been too apologetic to any situation between you two(even when she is wrong). YOU have given her too much control over your life and that is why she threatens you anyhow.
    If she keeps on threatening to leave because u cannot afford her needs,then let her go. Then you can hang out with a girl infront of her .